06/01/2026
When I talk about safety and lo******ng, people often assume I’m talking about boring, vanilla, lights-off missionary s-x.
🤯 And that couldn’t be further from the truth.
What most people don’t realize is that the safer a woman feels within herself and with someone — emotionally, mentally, physically, erotically, socially — the more free and expressive she becomes in her s-xuality.
✨✨✨ Basically, if you want a s-xually unhinged woman - you gotta create an unhinged amount of safety for her!!!! ✨✨✨
The more she trusts, the more she relaxes.
The more she relaxes, the more playful, creative, adventurous, and uninhibited she becomes.
Many women spend years performing a version of “wild” because they think that’s what’s expected of them. But performance isn’t the same as genuine being.
When s-xuality becomes something a woman does to impress you, please you, or keep you interested, she often walks away from the experience feeling disconnected, used, or empty. 💔💔💔
Real turn-on and desire are different. They arise from a body and nervous system that feel safe enough to let go and just BE.
Be naughty.
Be silly.
Be playful.
Be easily turned on.
Be effortlessly org-smic.
Be unhinged.
Be wild.
Be kinky.
Be saucy.
So here’s the FORMULA:
🔥 The more safety she creates within herself (self-worth, boundaries, communication, self-awareness, etc), the better she becomes at picking SAFE partners.
The more safety you create for your woman the more likely you are to meet her inner saucy minx.
It’s a win-win for everyone involved. 😉
P.S. I teach (and prove) exactly how this works inside my bestselling Honey Course.
Comment HONEY and I’ll send you the details. 🍯
