4 Wands Energy

4 Wands Energy Blending universal energy and human design to help you create the life you want.

09/02/2026

Change can be incredibly fu***ng hard.

This isn't "just choose differently."

It's asking whether you're waiting for circumstances to make a choice you already know you want to make.

And that's exactly what I support you with in my program, Your Design in Real Life. (Comment or visit my bio for more info) We work together 1:1 to strip away all the "shoulds" that you've picked up over the years and get back to the essence of who you are.

You already know what you need and I'm here to sign that permission slip so that you can go after it the way you want.

So...what will it take?

Part of the work I do is helping you separate “this is just how I am” from “this is what I learned to tolerate/adapt to....
08/24/2026

Part of the work I do is helping you separate “this is just how I am” from “this is what I learned to tolerate/adapt to.”

Human Design gives us one lens for recognizing the difference.

Comment DESIGN for details on how to work with me.

You don't have to continue the same way just because it's how you've always done things.

08/21/2026

Here's a little peek into one way I practice magick every day!

Do you use glamour magic? What's your favorite way to use it?

08/20/2026

Laziness would be doing nothing, that’s not you.

YOU have bursts of motivation all at once and can get your entire to do list done in an afternoon and then… nothing. Where did that energy go? When will it come back??

The problem is…

You’re approaching motivation like it’s the same for everyone. You’re trying to swim upstream when you could be flowing with your unique river.

Let’s fix that. If you want predictable motivation, you have to follow your unique energy type. Here’s how:
⚡Generators need a gut “yes” before springing into action
💡 Manifestors need to speak their moves before action
🌪️ Mani-Gens need to let themselves flow with the current of their attention
🗺️ Projectors wait for someone to ask for something before you can deliver it
🪞 Reflectors need to take a few days (or weeks) to think about it

Stop fighting against your energy and start working with your design.

Save this post for a pep talk next time you feel like you’re not doing “enough”

08/19/2026

You don’t need to know what’s missing. That’s actually who I’m looking for.

Maybe there’s nothing obviously wrong with your life.

You’re functioning. You’re doing the things. There are parts of your life you genuinely love.

You just have this persistent little is this it?

You know you want something more, different, deeper, more you…but good luck getting your brain to tell you what the hell that actually means.

Maybe you’ve bought the journal. Read the books. Taken the personality tests. Pulled cards. Changed routines. Picked up new hobbies. Fantasized about changing jobs, moving somewhere else, starting something completely different.

You’re searching. You’re just not entirely sure what you’re searching for.

That’s what I want to understand.

I’m looking for 5 women for casual 20 to 30 minute research conversations about this weird in-between space.

I don’t want you to diagnose the problem for me. I don’t need a polished answer about your goals. I want to hear what this actually feels like in your life, in the words you’d use when talking to a friend.

And in exchange for letting me poke around in your brain, I’ll give you a mini session afterward where we can explore whatever feels useful for you.

If this sounds suspiciously familiar, comment MORE and I’ll send you the details. 💛

08/19/2026

We've all got those things we swear by...here are some of mine 😈

1. Candles. For everything. 🕯️

Is the candle technically necessary for this particular ritual?

No.

Am I going to light one anyway?

Obviously.

There’s just something about lighting a candle that tells my brain, okay, we’re doing witchy s**t now.

2. Tiny jars. 🫙

I fu***ng love a tiny jar.

Do I currently have something to put in this tiny jar?

Irrelevant.

Will I eventually find something that belongs in it?

Almost certainly.

So obviously I need to keep it.

I’ve collected…a lot of them.

To the everlasting joy of my partner, who occasionally has to figure out where the hell we’re going to put them all.

3. My pendulum. ✨

This one’s actually incredibly special to me.

My main pendulum contains some of the ashes and fur of my heart-and-soul dogs.

I love divination tools in general, but there’s something different about using this one. It feels like they’re still here with me in some small way, helping me make choices that are beneficial for me.

I don’t think I’ll ever have another tool quite like it.

4. Intention oils. 🌿

Gotta love some good old-fashioned aromatherapy.

But I especially love that most of my intention oils double as nail/cuticle oils.

So I can choose an intention for whatever I need in that moment and literally put it on my hands.

There’s something I really love about that symbolism—using the intention to guide my hands toward whatever I’m trying to call in, create, release, or accomplish.

Plus: moisturized cuticles.

We love a multipurpose magical tool.

5. Crystals & gemstones. 💎

GIVE. ME. THE. SHINY. ROCKS.

Do I need another one?

Don’t ask questions you don’t want the answer to.

Moss agate and ocean jasper have my heart, but apparently my general crystal philosophy is:

Oooh, pretty.

Mine now.

Anyway, those are mine.

What witchy/spiritual tool would I have to pry from YOUR cold, dead hands?

08/17/2026

The Universe just likes to keep me on my toes sometimes, I guess.

But a big shout out to my witchcraft practice and reiki and tarot and Human Design and my found family for helping me peel away the layers that I put on to protect myself but are now just dead weight.

I am so settled in myself now (even though I still have a long way to go).

Consciously ending the fight against myself to be "better" or "different" or "more" has actually made it possible to be who I am...who I want to be.

08/16/2026

It continues 😭 I'm 2 seconds away from buying a Costco cheesecake all for myself....

08/15/2026

Come see me at Sunday Mornings Boutique and get a tarot reading to make this all worth it!

08/13/2026

I’ve been thinking lately about how far I’ve come and how much I’ve settled into who I actually am...

And honestly?

It’s relieving.

I didn’t realize how much brain power I was devoting to trying to fit into cultures, spaces and groups that didn’t necessarily recognize who I actually was.

Not maliciously.

Sometimes the way you naturally operate just doesn’t match the culture you grew up in.

I grew up around a lot of indirect communication.

You didn’t necessarily ask directly for what you wanted. You hinted. You waited. You tried to figure out what someone was willing to give you without putting them in the uncomfortable position of having to tell you no.

And I am…not naturally like that.

I want to ask the question.

You can say no.

I might not like the answer, but at least now I know the answer.

It took me a long time to realize how much energy I was spending trying to communicate in a way that didn’t come naturally to me.

And one of the biggest gifts of getting older has been slowly letting that go.

There is so much more room in my brain when I’m not constantly calculating the most acceptable way to be myself.

What’s something about yourself you’ve stopped trying to translate for other people?

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