09/02/2026
Not Your Mother’s Tea: Can you be friends with somebody you feel never took accountability for how they hurt you? They accused me of being stuck in the past.
You’re not stuck, but you’re still healing. You don’t have to manufacture a friendship just because you want to be over it and you’re clearly not. Feelings are information, use it. If you aren’t ready you just aren’t. Be honest with yourself about it though.
If you never get the closure from the accountability you feel like you need.. How are you going To address, release or alchemize those feelings?
