17/12/2025
A video- Proverbs 20:18
And. The words- always the words
Wise people seek counsel not because they’re weak, but because they want to make better decisions.
However, unhealthy & maladaptive behavior can influence what we seek (ex. validation, control, success, connection) isn’t random. Many of our pursuits are learned survival strategies or trauma responses we developed to meet unmet needs.
We reach for what once kept us safe.
Therapy helps us identify these external validation PATTERNS,understand where they came from, and DECIDE whether they still serve us. Seeking support is wisdom—and sometimes, it’s the most effective step toward healing & CHANGED behaviors.