09/02/2026
—Space the Final Frontier
Here is our topic for our upcoming Next Level Conversation.
Sunday,September 6, 2026. At 10 AM PST
I hope you can join us.
As a child I was definitely a “Treky”. The popular TV show of the day was Star Trek. And the brilliant creator of the show, Gene Roddenberry, coined the phrase, “ Space the final frontier.“
I had no idea as a child the meaning and the depth of this message.
Space is an interesting concept. And like most concepts it’s completely relative to our perception of it.
Space can be something that we desire. A space to breathe or to rest. It can be something we reach for in our busy chaotic lives.
Or space can feel like separation. It can feel like loneliness or feel hollow. Sometimes we can feel uncomfortable so we start to fill it in.
I strongly believe that emptiness is the root cause of addiction. We want to fill this space with something we can control. But what happens is that our belief in control, then begins to control us.
A common phrase in conflict is “Just give me some space”. What does that mean? Can someone give us space? How is space taken away from us?
Personally, I am intrigued by door number 3. For me, this is the space that simply is. It’s not lost or given. It is the fundamental nature of all life.
I call this space “Grace”.
The space of grace is inside, outside, and all around. It’s infinite and uncontained.
“Space” isn’t even a sufficient word to describe the invisible consistent and essential opening of existence.
It can’t be seen, felt, smelled, tasted or heard. This space is beyond sensory perception. Yet it is the one essential element of all the senses.
Space simply is.
We humans have very little patience for empty space. Just look at the planet, or my closets for instance. If there is space we typically fill it with something.
One type of space is the concept of time. As Eckhart Tolle puts it “ Our lives consist of the dash we see on tombstones, symbolizing the time between the day we are born and the day we die. “
This is the space of time that we are allotted for this unique and individual existence. And unlike the space we cannot sense or create, this perception of space is relative to a beginning and an end. This is the space we call time.
Time is a space that we rely on heavily. And often the concept of time can work against us. That is, if we haven’t come to understand that, in truth, it really doesn’t exist. At least not in the existential play.
Of course there are cycles and patterns in existence. But the human being is the only one who sets things up on a watch. This belief in time can create varied degrees of conflict, where there is none.
Time sets the tone for the concept of scarcity.
We can unconsciously start to fill the space of time with so much activity that we begin to think there is not enough time. And this can become a vicious cycle of too much or too little. The belief in time easily begins to overshadow the present moment and with it, the presence of grace.
This is how we create dependency on the unreal. Practicing the belief in scarcity, quickly becomes a habit. The habit projects our thoughts into infinite space and we then build our lives around it.
The belief in scarcity promotes a natural fear response. And this unconscious belief then becomes the habit of fear.
In my personal and professional work, I have focused on letting go of the tendencies of a fear-based source for our actions.
I share that the ego loves to activate around thoughts of time and money. This is because those are the areas that strengthen the concept of scarcity.Soon this scarcity belief conditions us to project, into infinite space the fear-based belief of not enoughness.
- Will I run out of time?
- Will I run out of money?
- What will my life be like if I don’t have enough?
I often ask, “ Enough for what?”
Most of our fears come from this belief in scarcity. Scarcity is felt as a personal “Not enoughness”
I recall a time in my life when I found myself in a transition with no office space to meet with people. This happened to come at the same time that my mortgage had doubled, due to placing a new home on my property.
I recall this story often because it was one of those moments where I could really see the beauty in my own personal work.
I sat down on the couch in the middle of my new house and wondered how I would pay the bills? The next thought shifted from scarcity to abundance.
I looked outside and I saw my very nice Chevrolet Silverado sitting in the driveway. This was my dream truck. My mother had left me some money a few years before when she passed away. And I spent some of it on getting a dependable vehicle. So in this moment when fear wanted to convince me of the belief in scarcity, I looked outside and thought —“Well, I could sell the truck. That would pay for a lot of house payments.”
This was a pivotal shift in consciousness. I was able to move from scarcity to abundance in one moment of time.
It was simply a shift in how I saw things. Soon after that, I decided to have an in-home office. People loved coming to the country to have their sessions. And many stated that the drive through nature offered them a sense of peace.
I became busier than ever and I never missed a house payment. And… I never even had to sell the truck.
There is a space of grace that holds our life. I have often asked myself, “Have you ever not made it?“
Somehow we manage through even the darkest of hours. But sometimes we don’t acknowledge and deepen our awareness of the grace that carries us through these times. It’s like a silent partner that carries the load.
I feel that the recognition of grace is one of the most powerful personal growth shifts we can make.
I’ve had many experiences that were perhaps dramatic, or felt, in some way, catastrophic. It wasn’t that I didn’t feel the pain or the suffering. I did. But over the years I have developed a faith. And that faith is what leads my life. I have faith in the space of grace.
This is what I lovingly call “Perfect Practice.“ It really doesn’t have anything to do with being perfect. It’s the space of grace that is perfect. Our practice is to recognize we are not separate from that. And that is what builds the faith.
Grace is our true essence. We can’t ever lose it, but we certainly can deny it.
In today’s world, power has over shadowed faith. Control has created fear. Certainly, I have the opportunity to see this in my own life and to intercept its quietly habitual way of sneaking in the back door.
I get better and better at catching it. The truth of the matter is, that’s because the habit of fear just doesn’t feel good. When I feel confined or constricted, you can bet that I have believed in scarcity over space.
There’s no shame, blame or guilt about this. It simply is a lifelong practice. I get better at reading the signs.
When I get lost believing in scarcity and confinement, it influences my nervous system in such a way that I feel tight and resistant. I know then that it’s time to look again. It’s time to see things differently. And when I do, I find grace. The space of grace that frees my mind and celebrates my soul.
Join us on Sunday Sept 6, 2026 at 10 AM for a heart filled discussion of reinterpreting life’s hardships to better utilize the space that is infinitely available. A space to breathe and to be, just as we are. And with that somehow everything changes.
These conversations are always organic and laid back. Folks are free to share or just listen. And everyone is welcome.
Here’s the link and we look forward to seeing you there.
Mary and Magnus.
Mary S. Corning is inviting you to a scheduled Zoom meeting.
Topic: Space the Final Frontier
Time: Sep 6, 2026 10:00 AM Pacific Time (US and Canada)
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