09/08/2026
Teen dating violence is more common than many people realize. According to the CDC, about 1 in 12 teens experienced physical dating violence, and about 1 in 10 teens experienced sexual dating violence annually.* This doesn’t even include other forms of abuse that may happen, such as verbal, psychological, and emotional abuse.
If you’ve got teens in your life, consider starting conversations with them early about healthy versus unhealthy relationships, red flags of abusive relationships, and what to do if they or someone they know experiences an abusive relationship. Here are a few tips:
First, educate yourself. If you enter into a conversation knowing a few facts about the dynamics of teen dating violence and some resources for more information and support, you’ll be better prepared to answer your kids’ questions. Some helpful resources include Loveisrespect.org (www.loveisrespect.org) and Break the Cycle (www.breakthecycle.org).
Second, acknowledge that this is a difficult topic to discuss. Acknowledging that this can be a difficult discussion is a helpful way to convey your openness to this conversation, even if it is hard to do.
Third, maintain a nonjudgmental approach. You could start by saying something along the lines of, “I know that dating while you’re a teenager can be complicated, and I’ve been hearing more lately that there are a lot of teens who have violence happen in their relationships. I wanted to talk about this with you so you can know you can talk to me about this sort of thing.”
Try to keep the dialogue open so this conversation doesn’t remain a one-time event. It is not easy to talk about issues like dating violence with the young people in our lives. However, these conversations are an important part of helping our kids develop healthy, safe relationships.
*https://www.cdc.gov/intimate-partner-violence/about/about-teen-dating-violence.html