Radiant Grace Mental Health Coaching

09/09/2026

Let me tell you something a really good pastor friend told me a long time ago…

Sometimes you have to do the thing before you feel the thing.

We put an awful lot of weight on feelings when we’re trying to make a decision.

“I just don’t have peace about it yet.”

Okay. But is God actually telling you to wait?

Or are you standing on top of the fence waiting to feel peaceful while trying to balance between two choices?

Because, friend…nobody has peace on top of a fence. They weren’t made for standin’ on.😂

You’re wobbling now. You might just stay wobbling the whole time you’re up there choosing…and choosing…and choosing…but never leaping to one side or the other.

One minute you’re leaning this way. Then something scares you and you lean the other way. You pray about it again. You rethink everything. You ask somebody else. You make a pros and cons list. You decide.

Then you undecide…again.

And three weeks later you’re still sitting on that fence with a spiritual splinter in your backside asking God why you don’t have peace.

Maybe because fences weren’t made for standin’ on.

At some point, after you’ve prayed, searched Scripture, used the wisdom God gave you, and sought wise counsel when you need it, you have to choose which side you’re getting down on.

Sometimes you have to climb down before your feelings are ready to come with you.

That does NOT mean ignoring the Holy Spirit’s warning or bulldozing through legitimate caution. Discernment matters.

But 𝘧𝘦𝘢𝘳 𝘪𝘴 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘢𝘭𝘸𝘢𝘺𝘴 𝘢 𝘴𝘵𝘰𝘱 𝘴𝘪𝘨𝘯.🛑

Uncertainty is 𝘯𝘰𝘵 always God saying no.

And feeling nervous about a decision does not necessarily mean you made the wrong one.

Sometimes it simply means you’re doing something hard. And with hard things, sometimes you’ve just gotta do it scared.

See, we have an enemy who would be perfectly happy to keep us perched on that fence indefinitely if indecision keeps us from moving forward in obedience, healing, purpose, healthy boundaries, or freedom.

He doesn’t necessarily need to convince you to run the wrong direction if he can convince you not to move at all.

So pray.

Listen.

Check it against God’s Word.

Use wisdom.

Then, when you know what the next right thing is, get your hiney off the fence. 😂

But there are also some things you just won’t know for sure. Still got to move your tail end down off one side or the other. Gather your evidence, your pros and cons list, or just your courage and move.

Put your feet on solid ground and start walking.

If you see the bull runnin’ at ya, you can squeeze through the slats to the other side! 😂

Or guess what…you might just discover that the peace you kept waiting to feel while you were wobbling between two choices was waiting for you on the other side of actually making one.

Feelings can catch up. And besides - feelings are real, but they aren’t always reliable narrators of truth. So listen to them - just don’t hand them the microphone and let them preach the whole sermon. 😂

Faith can move first.

Sometimes you’ve just gotta to do it scared. 😱 👍🏻

Happy Choice Makin’!

09/08/2026

You don’t have to “make space for sin” to extend grace to those who already have, and to those who are having difficulty putting an end to something they’ve habituated for years. God’s still working on all of us. ❤️

08/26/2026

I didn’t sit down one day and decide, “I think I’ll make a War Binder.”

It started because I needed one.

I had lived through seasons where prayer wasn’t pretty. It wasn’t a peaceful cup of coffee, a cute devotional, and twenty quiet minutes before the rest of the house woke up.

Sometimes prayer is warfare.

Sometimes it was me sitting before God with circumstances I couldn’t fix, people I couldn’t change, answers I couldn’t manufacture, and outcomes I couldn’t control.

And somewhere in all of that, God kept teaching me the same lesson:

My job is obedience. The outcome belongs to Him.

So I started building something that would give me one place to bring it all - the people I’m praying for, the battles I’m fighting, the Scriptures I’m standing on, the prayers God has answered, and the places where I’m still waiting.

That little idea kept growing.

And growing.

Until somehow, what began as something I needed became something I realized other women might need, too.

So… I wrote a book. 🥹

Actually, I built one.

The Prayer Command Center War Binder is officially available.

It’s not meant to sit beautifully on a shelf.

It’s meant to be opened.

Written in.

Prayed over.

Highlighted.

Cried on if necessary.

And absolutely worn out.

Because we’re not fighting for victory.

We’re fighting FROM victory.

📖 The Prayer Command Center War Binder
☀️ Available now at GodisintheOutcome.com/shop

God Is in the Outcome.
𝘛𝘳𝘶𝘴𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘈𝘶𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘳. 𝘓𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘵𝘰𝘳𝘺.

08/25/2026

Guess what…I wrote a book! (And the second - completely different - is in editing to hopefully be released this fall!) www.GodisintheOutcome.com and click Author or Shop in the menu!

08/25/2026

Well… now I can finally show you what I meant by the bigger house. ☀️

Radiant Grace Mental Health Coaching officially has a new home - under God Is in the Outcome.

Radiant Grace Coaching isn’t going anywhere. In fact, this move gives RGC more room to become exactly what I believe it was always meant to be.

Mental health coaching is still at the heart of what I do here - helping people work through anxiety, grief, divorce, difficult relationships, life transitions, emotional overwhelm, and the places where life simply hasn’t turned out the way they thought it would.

But I’ve learned something through this work: healing rarely stays neatly inside one little box.

Sometimes it happens in a coaching session. Sometimes it happens when Scripture finally speaks differently to something you’ve carried for years. Sometimes it happens around a table, through creativity and connection, or when somebody simply reminds you that your story isn’t finished yet.

That’s why Radiant Grace Coaching is now part of the larger God Is in the Outcome family.

And today, our brand-new website is officially LIVE. 🎉

You’ll find Radiant Grace Coaching there, including information about coaching and how to work with me - but you’ll also find Son-Kissed Grace Designs, upcoming Son-Kissed Grace Gatherings and workshops, ministry resources, and something else I’m pretty excited to finally tell you about…

I wrote a book. 🥹📖

The Prayer Command Center War Binder is officially available to purchase!

There is quite a bit to explore, and even more is coming. But for tonight, I’d love for you to go look around our new home and see what God has been building from all these seemingly separate pieces.

Because around here, we believe your hardest chapters don’t get the final word.

God Is in the Outcome. ☀️
𝘛𝘳𝘶𝘴𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘈𝘶𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘳. 𝘓𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘵𝘰𝘳𝘺.

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Personalized, trauma-informed life coaching for adults & teens navigating life's stresses, grief, and personal growth. Online & in-person sessions available.

08/25/2026

Something new is coming tonight. 👀☀️

Radiant Grace has been growing - but not away from what we’ve always been about.

Helping people heal, grow, and build lives that reflect who God created them to be.

What’s changing is the bigger picture around us.

Tonight at 7:00pm, I’m sharing something I’ve been working toward for quite a while - and you’ll finally get to see where Radiant Grace fits into something much bigger.

Same heart. Same mission. Same commitment to walking beside people through the hard stuff.

Just a much bigger house. ❤️

I’ll show you tonight.

Radiant Grace Mental Health Coaching
Build a life you don’t need to escape - by God’s design.

08/25/2026

Something BIG is happening tonight. 👀☀️

Pieces that have been growing separately are finally coming together under one roof.

A new home.
Some familiar faces.
Some brand-new things.
And one pretty big surprise I’ve somehow managed to keep quiet. 👀📖

TONIGHT @ 7:00pm.

The doors open. ❤️

God Is in the Outcome.
𝘛𝘳𝘶𝘴𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘈𝘶𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘳. 𝘓𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘵𝘰𝘳𝘺.

08/20/2026

You Don’t Have to Manage the Room

Continuing this week’s theme, When You’re Carrying What Isn’t Yours, today we’re moving from rescuing people’s problems to something even sneakier: feeling responsible for everybody’s mood.

Sweet friend, have you ever walked into a room, realized somebody was “off,” and immediately started mentally taking attendance? Who’s upset? What happened? Was it something I said? Do I need to fix this? 😅

Some of us can read a room faster than we can read the menu. And yep, I’m talking about me…but is this you, too?

Being sensitive to other people is a beautiful quality. But somewhere along the way, sensitivity can turn into emotional monitoring - constantly watching faces, tones, pauses, and body language so you can adjust yourself and keep everybody okay.

And goodness, that is exhausting.

Maybe somebody gets quiet and you start filling the silence. Somebody seems irritated and you become extra agreeable. Somebody’s having a bad day and suddenly you feel like it’s your assignment to cheer them up.

Here’s a little coaching truth I want you to practice: You are allowed to notice someone’s emotion without taking responsibility for it.

Try this the next time you feel yourself scanning the room. Instead of asking, “What do I need to do about this?” ask, “Has anyone actually asked something of me? Is there something so truly 𝘯𝘦𝘦𝘥 to do to fix this?”

If you’ve hurt somebody, make it right. If someone needs you and you’re able to help, absolutely show up with love. But if another grown person is simply quiet, frustrated, disappointed, tired, or in a bad mood, you don’t have to scramble around trying to change the emotional temperature of the room.

Jesus was deeply compassionate, but He was never controlled by everybody else’s reactions to Him. My goodness, Peter alone would have had Him in a tizzy at least half the time! No, He loved people well without making their approval the measure of whether He was doing the right thing.

You can learn to do that, too.

Sometimes peace looks like sitting right there in a room where somebody else isn’t okay…and realizing you can still be okay. 🤍

And if you’ve spent so many years managing everybody around you that you’re not even sure how to stop, that’s something we can work on together.

Radiant Grace Mental Health Coaching
Build a life you don’t need to escape - by God’s design.

08/18/2026

𝑶𝒗𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒙𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒊𝒏𝒊𝒏𝒈

Sweet friend, if you have already explained yourself clearly and kindly, adding six more paragraphs probably isn’t going to make somebody suddenly agree with you. 😅

Overexplaining is something we often do when we’re trying to manage another person’s opinion of us. We don’t just want them to understand what we decided. We need them to understand why we decided it, agree that our reasons are valid, and preferably send back a little certificate confirming we are still a good person. 😂

That usually isn’t communication anymore. It’s anxiety looking for reassurance.

And it can sound like: “I just don’t want them to think I’m selfish.” “I need them to understand where I’m coming from.” “Maybe if I explain it one more way…”

But here’s the hard part: you can communicate beautifully and still be misunderstood. You can make a healthy decision and somebody can still disagree with it. You can tell the truth with kindness and still not get the response you hoped for.

Your job is to communicate with honesty, clarity, authenticity, and respect. Your job is not to control the conclusion somebody else reaches about you.

Try this little coaching exercise today. Before sending that long text, email, or explanation, stop and ask yourself:

Am I giving information they genuinely need, or am I trying to relieve my anxiety by getting them to agree with me?

If they need the information, communicate it.

If you’re chasing their approval, put the phone down for a while.

You are allowed to let a clear, respectful answer be enough. And learning to tolerate being misunderstood occasionally might just be part of learning not to carry what belongs to somebody else. 🤍

Radiant Grace Mental Health Coaching

Build a life you don’t need to escape - by God’s design.