31/01/2022
This is something I try to remind myself of everyday. I’m made for my dream life.
Spending time online and seeing all the incredible lives others have created for themselves, it’s easy to fall into comparison.
Judging yourself for how far behind you think you are. Or beating yourself up for all the ways your not yet acting in ways that are aligned with the life you want to live.
But we have to remind ourselves that we’re human. There is a process to all of this and everyone’s journey is unique.
It can be easy to should all over self. You should have done this. You should be doing this. You shouldn’t say this. You should do things the way that person does it.
But a lot of those shoulds are created by the voices of your past. Voices of your parents or your peers. But those voices are from people who aren’t living the life you desire to live. Because if they were, they wouldn’t have said those things in the first place.
Often the voices in our head were planted there by people who couldn’t fully appreciate us. They couldn’t see the amazingness that we are. And because they couldn’t see us their responses didn’t validate our authentic expression.
So now on the journey to live our dream life we have to stop listening to those voices from our past. The problem is our mind has a lot of data to back them up.
So now we have to feed it different data that aligns with where we want to go and who we truly our. And that starts with reminding ourselves that we’re made for our dream life.
I see you. You are doing an amazing job! And you are absolutely made for your dream life. And even if you don’t believe it yet. Know that I believe it for you 💕
