04/07/2026
He woke up exhausted, again…convinced he’d slept a couple of hours.
So I asked him to wear a sleep tracker, and it said otherwise: 6 hours, consistently, night after night.
Can you see the gap between what the body is doing and what the mind believes?
Hello, anticipatory anxiety 👋🏻 This isn’t the only way it shows up, but in this case, it was.
Anticipatory anxiety is the nervous system’s attempt to prepare for something it’s learned to fear fin this case, a bad night’s sleep) even though that threat isn’t present anymore.
The problem is, that bracing response actually disrupts the quality of rest. The worry about sleep becomes part of what makes sleep harder, also.
And, it can hijack how we interpret our experience and create exaggerations and intensity where it isn’t warranted.
In yoga therapy, we work with this pattern directly - not just with relaxation techniques, but by addressing the underlying nervous system state driving the anticipation.
We slow the threat response.
We rebuild trust between mind and body.
And we create routines that feel genuinely regulating, not like another thing to fail at.
That’s when his sleep hygiene practices shifted and they started to genuinely soothe him enough to unwind and sleep.
Same habits…Different felt sense!
Because he wasn’t white-knuckling through them anymore like it was a test to either pass or fail.
If you recognize this 👀 the bracing, the dreading, the exhaustion that doesn’t match reality, this is exactly the kind of work we do together in private sessions.
I work with new clients on a rolling basis. No waitlist. Reach out via DM or the link in my bio to connect and book a time to see if we’re a fit.
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