05/27/2026
Hi, I am Olivia, a pediatric occupational therapist and toddler mom, and p**p refusal is one of the most common concerns I see, as well as in my own home.
Peeing and p**ping are two completely different milestones and so many parents are blindsided when their toddler masters one and completely shuts down on the other. You are not doing anything wrong and your toddler is not giving you a hard time, their brain and body just need a little more time and the right conditions to feel safe enough to let go.
This is part of my ongoing series where I answer your real potty training questions as both a pediatric OT and a mom who has been in the trenches.
Drop your questions in the comments and your question might be my next video. 👇
Has your toddler ever mastered one part of potty training and completely stalled on another? And which part has been the hardest: p**ping, public restrooms, or getting them to tell you when they need to go?
Tell me below because I want to make sure I am covering exactly what you need. 👇
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