07/23/2026
I competed in bodybuilding across four different decades... the 80s, 90s, 2000s, and 2010s.
Bodybuilding taught me discipline. It taught me how to train with purpose, how to eat to get lean, and how to push this meat suit to limits most people never will. Sometimes I pushed it a little too far. I looked great on the outside, but not every decision I made was healthy.
When I was young, I thought I was indestructible. Then age caught up with me, and with age came wisdom.
Do I have regrets? No.
I did a lot of things right, and I made plenty of mistakes. I'm human. The difference isn't whether we make mistakes, it's whether we learn from them. Every lesson makes us a little wiser, a little stronger, and a little better than we were yesterday. Growth doesn't come from being perfect. It comes from owning our mistakes, learning from them, and moving forward.
Today, at 56, I still lift weights, just not the way I used to. I do more cardio, pay closer attention to my diet, and yes... I still enjoy some sweets in moderation. Life is about balance.
No matter where you are in life, it's never too late to become a healthier version of yourself.
Here's my advice: Change one bad habit every month.
Start with the smallest one. Get one win under your belt every month. One month becomes two. Two becomes six. Before you know it, you've replaced 12 bad habits with 12 better ones.
Small victories create big changes.
One year from now, you can be stronger, healthier, and happier than you are today.
The best time to start was yesterday. The next best time is today.