Joy with Jax

Joy with Jax If you're desiring to experience a more soul-aligned life, filled with depth, meaning, & connection, you're in the right place! Learn more at joywithjax.com.

As a coach, I specialize in supporting high-achievers, freedom-seekers, and ambitious women who crave MORE than a fancy job title, lackluster relationship, & status quo life that leaves them thinking "is this REALLY what I've worked so hard for?!" at the end of a long (busy) day. Jacqueline Stevens is a Soulful Alignment Coach who guides women to create lives full of passion, purpose, + peace. Her

personal journey of “making it” to the top of a career in the beauty industry while being clinically burnt out led her onto a true “Eat Pray Love” spiritual + internal quest to rediscover who she was without all the external achievements, roles, + relationships she had defined herself by. As she began to re-discover herself by unraveling her inner workings, her life literally transformed from the inside-out. This journey led her to become a Certified Professional Coach + an Energy Leadership Index Master Practitioner (ELI-MP) + Energy & Reiki Practitioner.

Mexico City.O.My.Goddess.Divinity. ✨The food — superb.The culture — exquisite.The museums — I found my favorite in the w...
03/31/2026

Mexico City.

O.
My.
Goddess.

Divinity. ✨

The food — superb.
The culture — exquisite.
The museums — I found my favorite in the world.
The art — I wept at a painting for the first time. Mary Magdalene.
The friends — lifelong.

12 days in this Mecca of a city.

No wonder she’s wildly popular.
She’s a yes every time for me.

I’ll be back.
Again and again.

What you must do:

✨ Museo Anahuacalli
(part museum, part temple, part time capsule)

🌮 Michelin tacos at Maizajo
(I had them three times)

🥐 Pastries at Panadería Rosetta

☕ Breakfast at Another

🥗 Lunch at Entremar, Molina El Pujol & Manu

🍷 Dinner at Gaba & Rosetta

But honestly…
it’s hard to f*ck anything up here.

Gratitude oozes.
Memories abound.

My love for this city —
and this country and culture —
is deep and wide.

And?
I can now order in Spanish. 🇲🇽

If only the U.S. treated Mexicans
the way Mexicans treat us.

Forever grateful for this journey. ❤️

Mexico has been a true love story.Just not the one I expected.When I left for Mexico on January 31, I thought I was comi...
03/28/2026

Mexico has been a true love story.
Just not the one I expected.

When I left for Mexico on January 31, I thought I was coming for a month.
For the food, the culture, the sunshine to bronze my skin, and a much needed reset.

And if I’m honest… maybe there was even a person 👀

But as I’ve extended my time here… twice… what’s been revealed is that the person I’ve fallen more deeply in love with… is me 👱🏼‍♀️.

There is something exquisite about travel.
I’ve always thrived in this arena, maybe it’s my Sagittarius rising.
But there something even more special about traveling so(u)lo.

Travel disrupts your routines.
It forces adaptability.
It expands your perspective.
It reconnects you to your curiosity.
You’re forced to see yourself and your place in the world, differently.

But more than anything,
it reveals who you are.

How you move through the world.
How you see yourself in new environments.
How you respond when things don’t go your way.
How you spend your time and energy when no one else is around.
And of course, there’s learning a new tongue.

We humans are wired for connection.
We spend years dependent on our caregivers… longer than almost any other species.

Dependence isn’t weakness.
It’s part of our design.

But I believe we’re entering a new era of love. I know we are.

Not one where we outsource ourselves.
But one where we come home to ourselves first.

Mexico hasn’t been a romantic getaway in the traditional sense. Which makes sense, I’m not really a traditional woman.

But it has been wildly romantic.

Because the romance wasn’t about someone else.
It was about how I spend my time.
How I honor my energy.
How I meet myself when no one else is there.
How I turn myself on, simply by living, breathing, and feeling.

This trip has been a deeper becoming.
A fuller embodiment.

Of loving myself.
And ultimately… trusting myself!
And what I’ve created as I’ve been here?
Is the best work of my life.

And it makes me curious:
Have you ever taken a trip that changed the way you see yourself?

Not just where you went —
but who you became while you were there.

To all my lovers 🖤🤍
Journey in, and journey on.

For a long time, I thought my dating history meant something was wrong with me.Non-committal men!Emotional unavailable m...
03/20/2026

For a long time, I thought my dating history meant something was wrong with me.

Non-committal men!
Emotional unavailable men.
Wrong timing.

Most people want a secure, equitable, juicy relationship.
Most people want a million dollars.
But wanting something and being equipped to create it are two very different things, whether in the bedroom or the boardroom.

My dating life wasn’t random.
It followed my patterns.

Who I chose reflected what felt familiar — because that’s how we’re wired.
We recreate what we learned about love long before we had language for it.

And here’s the part most people avoid:
Patterns can be painful — and they are changeable.

How I dated reflected my emotional availability!
More than theirs.
Because an emotionally available person would never stay with someone who isn’t.
Period. Let that sting!

What I tolerated showed me where I was out of alignment with what I said I wanted.
Traditional dating says,

“You just haven’t met the right person yet.”
Disruptive Dating asks a deeper question:
Are your dating habits actually designed to create the relationship you want?
Gulp.

That question changed everything.
It wasn’t about the men.
It was about my tolerance.
What I accepted.
What I avoided.
My need to chase and prove love.
I didn’t need more options.
I didn’t need more chemistry.
I didn’t need to try harder.
I needed skill and will.

So I read over 250 books on dating, attachment, and relating.
I immersed myself in the science — and then? I fu***ng lived it.

I created a framework that helped me see my patterns in real time and make different choices — without shame.

Choices that aligned with what I actually wanted to create.
That’s why I developed the Disruptive Dating framework.
It’s a soul science.
Not a promise of “the one.”
Not a bypass around discomfort.
But a way to hand you the tools — the sword — so you can dig deep, create alignment, reclaim agency, and date with clarity and self-trust.

Your dating history isn’t a verdict.
It’s information!
And when you learn how to read it, it becomes the pathway forward.
🖤

03/17/2026

83 point in a game.

And the first person he talks about?
His boo.

First call he answers?
In his media interviews?
His mommy.

This is a man who clearly sees the power of women in his life, and he honors them.

This? Is a Disruptive Man.
And we love him for it.

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