24/12/2021
What do you think? Is this statement true? Comment, and let's have a conversation. I'm curious to read what you think. "Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself." - George Bernard Shaw
For the longest time, I thought I had to find my purpose. To have this godly a-ha moment of finding my calling. I'm not 100% sure when this mindset started shifting. But I know for sure that being a business owner had something to do with it.
2013 I started my first business in Germany. In 2015 I started my first business in the US, and then in 2017, I started another business (heartfully done as it is today). In between, I worked in churches as a wedding officiant and interior designer. I did so many things and learned a lot along the way.
I know for sure that my life isn't about finding myself; it's about creating and experiencing myself. About making up my mind about all, I've learned, and then reflect some more on top of that. And this is how I know what I want and what I don't anymore. There is no one size fits all plan.
Whatever it was, I tried to find it back in my teen years and twenties - and let's not kid us here, also not for the most of my thirties - I couldn't find it by thinking, reading books, watching TED Talks, etc. I needed to get into trial and error mode and see how thing A feels, how thing B feels, and then try some more.
The Old Testament calls God the creator of this world. And also that we are made in God's image. I find this beautiful to think of myself as a creator for painting a picture, planting some flowers, or helping my clients bring order into a cluttered space.
Certainly, this isn't my only talent. I am also a great preacher, but it brings me so much more joy to see someone's very practical transformation. I'm really into before and afters.
I encourage you to go from finding mode into creation mode. It made and made an enormous change in my own life.