10/13/2026
“I used to be the person who organized everything. If someone needed help, I was already figuring out how to make it happen.
Now I stand in the kitchen trying to remember why I walked in there.
I let calls go unanswered because I don’t have the energy for a conversation. By the time I’ve done what absolutely has to get done, there’s nothing left for anything I actually enjoy.
My family says I’ve been quiet lately. I don’t know how to explain that I miss me too. I miss being interested in things. I miss having something to talk about besides how I feel. Sometimes I avoid old friends because I don’t want to explain why I’m still struggling or hear myself say, ‘Maybe next time,’ again.
The hardest part is wondering whether this is who I am now.”
Dr. Maggie’s perspective:
If you recognize yourself here, I want you to know why I look beyond individual symptoms. I’ve been sick, and I understand how much of your identity can disappear behind the work of getting through a day.
Watch this video to learn how I approach the patterns behind complicated symptoms, so you can stop facing them as disconnected problems and start understanding a way forward toward the life you miss: https://drmaggieyu.com/pots-webinar-fb-voices-of-chronic-illness