Seeing with Your Heart

06/12/2026

Entangled Love: Love That Binds, Love That Frees 
A FREE Seeing With Your Heart Online Gathering

June 12, 2026, 12:00 - 2:00 pm ET, via Zoom

With Emily Blefeld, LISCW & Dan Cohen, PhD

Join with other intentional journeyers in this free workshop to reveal and rewrite the limiting storylines that bind the flow of our heart’s desire. 

In community, we will witness the rich and multifaceted ways that love can and has been known over the generations, in our own families and as reflections of the universal themes of connection and belonging. 

What to Expect
We will incorporate grounding practices, a discussion and teaching on the topic, small group somatic-based experiential exercises, and a larger collective exploration to welcome and acknowledge the burdens as well as the gifts of your heart’s patterning.

Explore how universal patterns of relational dysfunction can serve as gifts to expand and free our loving hearts.

06/11/2026

What if the places where love feels hardest in your life are not signs of failure, but rather invitations to learn to love deeper.

Bert Hellinger, Founder of Constellation work said, “Problems are unsuccessful attempts to love.”
For many of us, the patterns we struggle with most in relationships -
The fear of abandonment.
The longing to belong.
The tendency to overgive.
The difficulty receiving.
The feeling of carrying burdens that do not seem to belong to us.
Often, these are expressions of love.
Love reaching across generations.
Love trying to include what has been forgotten.
Love trying to restore connection.

Hellinger also taught:
“Love fills what order contains.” When love becomes entangled with loyalty, sacrifice, or unresolved family pain, our heart’s deepest desires can become bound by stories we never consciously chose.

In this free Seeing With Your Heart gathering, Entangled Love: Love That Binds, Love That Frees, we will explore:
• The hidden stories shaping your relationships
• The patterns of sweet and bitter love passed through generations
• Universal themes of connection, belonging, and love
• How the places that hurt the most often contain the doorway to greater freedom

Through grounding practices, experiential exercises, small group exploration, and collective inquiry, we will gently uncover what your heart may be ready to see.

Join us.
June 12, 2026
12:00 PM to 2:00 PM ET
Online via Zoom
With Emily Blefeld, LICSW, and Dan Cohen, PhD
Register through the link in bio.

06/11/2026

Join with other intentional journeyers in a FREE Seeing with Your Heart online workshop called:

Entangled Love: Love That Binds, Love That Frees
June 12, 2026, 12:00 - 2:00 pm ET, via Zoom
With Emily Blefeld, LISCW & Dan Cohen, PhD

Reveal and rewrite the limiting storylines that bind the flow of our heart’s desire.

Witness the multifaceted ways that patterns of sweet and bitter love are passed down across generations.

Receive teachings on the universal themes of connection, belonging, and patterns of love.

Learn how the places where love feels the hardest are often where love is trying to open you the most.

We will incorporate grounding practices, small group somatic and experiential exercises, and a larger collective exploration to acknowledge and welcome the burdens as well as the gifts of your heart’s patterning.

Come explore how the patterns shaping your relationships can serve as the very thing that frees your heart.

Click here to register:
https://community.seeingwithyourheart.com/entangled-love-free-masterclass

06/08/2026

High summer has always felt like home to me. It’s the season I was born into, when the earth is fully alive and everything seems to be reaching toward its fullest expression.

This August, during Lion’s Gate, Emily and I will be joining Zsoka Scurtescu on Salt Spring Island for a retreat that’ll focus your intentions towards the expansiveness of the heat, while also clearing the unseen forces that keep us circling the same patterns.

Together we’ll explore what wants to emerge, what stands in the way, and what becomes possible when those obstacles are finally released.

Warm water. Open skies. Deep work. Beautiful company.

Will you join us?

Link in bio.

05/20/2026

Did you know that you are a living broadcast?
Your energy is a transmission moving through the atmosphere. What we tolerate doesn’t stay contained within us… it ripples outward and is felt by the people around us, our communities, our children, our clients, the wider world.

I’ve developed a deep no-tolerance policy for the things I no longer want to vibrate into the collective… and I’m learning how to weave that discernment into my leadership more fully.

We are wayshowers.
We are way-BE’ers.

It’s time to become radically aligned with what we actually believe in and learn how to embody those values inside the ecosystems shaping humanity.

Those of us who act as living antennae for the light of the Universe have the ability to shift the field every single day through the frequency we carry, the choices we make, and the energy we broadcast.

Join me?

05/12/2026

Wishing you a Happy Mother's Day!

For the Sisters and Sister Friends
The Aunties and Cousins
The Step Mothers and Mentors
Girlfriends and Godmothers
For the Women
Who will not get a card
Or macaroni necklaces
Or brunch
Or flowers
Who stand in the gap
Who encourage and love
Who guide and protect
Who Mother Us
Who Mother the Motherless
Who Mother us when our Mothers
Are far from reach
Whose voices We long to hear
Whose arms We wish could hold Us
For the Women who some how manage
To be an echo of Love
We never had
Never felt
But desperately needed
Today is for You too
For the Women
Who show us what Motherhood
Can be
When some of us have
Memories that ache like phantom limbs
Pain from the removal
Pain from the missing
Pain from what should be
But isn’t
We celebrate You today
For loving Us
When We felt so unloved
When We told ourselves
Who can Love
Me
If my Mama can’t
To the Women who helped Us heal
Thank You for teaching Our hearts
To receive
For the nobody’s Mamas
The Women who chose not to
And are judged
Who are constantly asked
When will You
When are You
Who are told
Your clock is ticking
To the Women who whisper
To younger Women
You don’t have to be a Mother
You don’t have to be a wife
You can choose any life
And You are still worthy
Today We thank you
For Mothering Yourself
Fearlessly
Paving the way for choice
For the Mothers with empty arms
And full hearts
That crave to hold
To pour love in abundance
Who have tried
And feel that they have failed
We honor You today
We hold space to mourn with you
You can take off the mask of
I’m ok
We know this dream is so big
That when it breaks
You can’t breathe
We honor Your strength
We hold You in Our hearts
We will celebrate Your rainbows with You
Today We honor the Spirits of
Motherhood
More powerful than just a womb
Existent even when She has left us
Even when She comes to Us through
Other souls
Even when She has hurt Us beyond
Comprehension
We honor the Women who love away
The pain
Today We honor you
We raise a glass
We shout in gratitude
Thank you to the Women
Who didn’t birth Us
But Mother us with love Abundant
We humbly thank You
For Your hands in the small of Our backs
Pushing Us forward when We are afraid
For the words we needed to hear
That are louder than Our doubts
For showing Us by example
For leading with love
For being the Women who inspire Our
Spirits
Today is for You too
Happy Mother’s Day

*art by Scarlett*

05/06/2026

“Tell me how you were loved and I’ll tell you how you love.”Esther Perel

You achieve. You inspire. You do the deep work. And still the simple unmet desire, to love and be loved pulses through your body.

Modern life rewards it all and trains our collective nervous system to mask what sits underneath. Patterns in love form a deep longing alongside distance and limits in receiving.

These patterns did not start with you.

They were shaped across generations. Through loss, migration, survival, exclusion, silence, grief, trauma. Your family system adapted in order to belong and endure. Those adaptations now live in your body, your relationships, and your capacity for closeness.

If you only look at your personal story, you miss the wider field.

At the Constellations International Retreat in Malta, we will work beyond the individual story, touching into inherited imprints from one’s family and soul lineage and the collective field that shaped how we were loved and how we love.

As keynote facilitators, Emily Blefeld and Dan Cohen will teach the alchemy of love and support you to …

Reclaim the softness.
Remember the strength.
Return to Love.

Constellations International Retreat Malta
May 18 to 29, 2026
Link in profile if you want to join us. It’s an epic line-up of some of the best facilitators!

05/05/2026

Come and be part of something special and meet Dan and I in Malta at the Constellators International Retreat where we will present a keynote workshop. This is a rare chance to meet inspiring colleagues from all over the world, live and in person.

Dive into fresh highlights and explore the colourful landscape of workshops created with love, care, and brilliance by our global constellation community. https://constellators-international.com/ci-retreat-2026/

Let Yourself be Inspired
1. The KEYNOTE Program with day-long workshops by internationally renowned colleagues

2. The HIDDEN GEM Program with 3-hour workshops by colleagues of all ages and experiences, who offer outstanding work but are not so internationally known

3. The INTERNATIONAL Program with a surprising variety of 1,5-3 hour workshops by colleagues from all over the world who want to introduce themselves to a wide public

4. The EVERY MORNING Program with togetherness, meditation, sharing, bodywork, and other surprises. Ali Warner leads it in collaboration with various colleagues.

5. The ENTERTAINMENT Program
• The Festive Retreat Opening
on Monday, 18 May, 9-12 AM
• The Networking & Eating Together
on Monday evenings
• The CI Love Music Party