08/30/2026
I’ve been thinking a lot lately about how easy it is to put parts of your life on hold.
After being married for a long time, and now single for the last almost 10 years, I am finally feeling like I’m coming into myself. (Geez that took a while 🤣)
And recently, i finally see how much I’d been waiting for the right person to come along and fill a hole in my heart.
Yes i have Jesus.
Yes i am whole.
But damnit. We women are created out of man to be a helper and i have a lot of help in me to give. 😆
If you’ve followed me for long, you know I’ve been through it. Through the belly of hell to the peaks of Zion, and i r really spent too much time in valley of death.
I mean, I used to say “I’m really good at making bad decisions. “ and i was.
And yet after living a life of codependency, and slowly freeing myself from that mindset, i know the whole f*cking lonely journey has been 100% worth it.
Every tear.
Every heartbreak.
Every bad decision.
Every friend i lost.
And
Every friend i made
Every damn smile. Even the forced ones.
Everywhere i went and everywhere i left.
All of it.
Awareness comes before change. And I’m finally aware. Or does change come when you’re finally fed up? Maybe both.
Awareness + Resolve apparently.
🤏🏽