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10/17/2026

Sometimes the most sacred moment of your day happens when you stop trying to make anything happen.

This was one of those moments for me. Warm water around me, soft rain falling from the sky, eyes closed, and music carrying me somewhere beyond thought. No prayer to recite, no practice to perfect. Just presence.

When we get quiet enough, something opens. The mind slows, the breath deepens, and we remember that we are part of something far bigger than our to-do lists. The same life force that moves through the rain, the water, and the wind also moves through you.

So often we think spirituality has to be earned through effort. Another book, another ritual, another thing to get right. But some of the deepest connection happens in surrender. When we stop gripping and start listening, guidance has room to arrive.

Maybe you don’t need an answer today. Maybe you just need a moment of stillness to feel that you are held by something greater than your worries.

Let your eyes close. Let your shoulders soften. Let the sound of the rain remind you that you are never separate from the sacred.

What helps you feel connected to something bigger than yourself? Share it in the comments. 🌧️

10/17/2026

Watch this tree for a moment. Let your shoulders drop.

I’m in Arizona right now, and this is what I see outside my window. A tree moving with the wind, not fighting it, not gripping, not trying to hold any shape at all. It bends, it sways, and it stays rooted the whole time.

Most of us were never taught that. We were taught to brace, to hold it together, to stay rigid so nothing can shake us. But a tree that never moved would snap in the first strong wind. Its strength comes from its roots and its softness.

I think our bodies know this too. When we soften our breath, loosen our jaw, and let ourselves be moved instead of pushed around, something settles. Roots go down. Everything else gets to sway.

So take one slow breath with this tree. Feel your feet. Let your body move the way it wants to.

Where do you go to feel rooted when life gets windy? Tell me in the comments.

10/17/2026

Let’s talk about being comfortable in your own skin for a minute. How do you feel about it?

When I was younger, I was so uncomfortable that I could change clothes in front of a group of friends and not one of them would see any skin. I had it down to a science. Every once in a while I would take a midnight skinny dip, but even then I never felt at home in my body.

Now I find it interesting that so many people in the intimacy space teach in rooms where clothes are optional or not at all. That is exactly why you will see that a lot of my classes do not include nudity. I remember the me who was uncomfortable, and I know plenty of people would never sign up for a class where they thought they might be pressured to undress. Everyone deserves to feel comfortable.

I do have a couple of advanced courses where I introduce some nudity to teach techniques, because many people are visual learners and it helps to see it. But after all these years, I have come a long way. I am much more comfortable skinny dipping in the daylight now, and much more comfortable in a room where people are in their birthday suits. I celebrate that.

It makes me wonder why so many of us feel this self-conscious in our own skin. And I am not talking about how you feel seeing other people. I mean how you feel about being seen.

No pressure, and no stories required. Just tell me in the comments: on a scale of 1 to 10, how comfortable are you in your own skin right now? Drop a number, and I will cheer you on. 💜

10/16/2026

Have you ever heard the word Ta**ra and thought, “I have no idea what that actually means or how to practice it”?

Good news: that is completely normal, and everybody starts somewhere.

That is why Dr. Willow Brown and I are hosting A New Ta**ra Exploration, a live introductory event right here in Santa Barbara. You do not need any experience. And if you already have plenty of experience, you will still walk away with a lot of new insight.

Here is what you will learn:

What Ta**ra really is, and the difference between neo Ta**ra and classical Ta**ra
A real, workable definition of Red Ta**ra and White Ta**ra
How to practice Ta**ra with a partner and how to practice it on your own
A foundational breathing practice you will leave already knowing how to use
Beginning meditations to help increase the power, intensity, and length of your or***ms

Come on your own. Come with a partner. Come skeptical. Singles and couples are both welcome, and you will be in a room full of people who are just as curious as you are. It is fully clothed and live with Willow and me, not a recording.

📍 LoDo Studios, Santa Barbara, CA
📅 Friday, November 6
🕖 7:00 to 8:30pm Pacific
🎟️ $25 now or $35 at the door

If you are anywhere near Santa Barbara, we would love to see you there. Grab your spot here: https://www.moreloveworks.com/leah-resources

Watching on Instagram or YouTube? Tap the Link Lounge in my bio and look for A New Ta**ra Exploration.

Tell me in the comments: are you coming solo or bringing a partner? Tag a Santa Barbara friend who's always been curious about Ta**ra. 💜

10/15/2026

What if you could walk into a room and actually feel magnetic, without pretending to be someone you’re not?

Here’s a secret about flirting: it isn’t a script, and it isn’t a performance. It’s energy. And once you learn to play with your energy, people feel drawn in and you never have to feel phony doing it.

That’s what Dr. Willow Brown and I are teaching in our Flirting Masterclass on Wednesday, October 21, from 4:00 to 5:30 pm Pacific / 7:00 to 8:30 pm Eastern. In 90 minutes, you’ll get:

♥ Skill with attunement, so you can read and meet the energy in the room
♥ Three core flirtation practices you can use that same night, solo or with a partner
♥ Simple, in the moment language to create a spark without it feeling forced
♥ A free 3 day replay if you can’t make it live

No Ta**ra experience needed and no partner required. The class is educational and experiential, with no nudity or explicit demonstration on screen.

I’d love for you to come live, because your questions help us shape the class around you.

Class details and registration: https://www.s*xreimagined.com/offers/z26TwPt7/checkout

On Instagram or YouTube? The Link Lounge in my bio has it too, along with past episodes, upcoming events and more.

So tell me in the comments: are you a natural flirt, a flirt in training, or a soon to be Jedi? No wrong answers.

10/15/2026

“My libido must be broken.” “Something is wrong with my s*x drive.” “We need to see someone because I just don’t want to have s*x.” Sound familiar?

One of the most common things I see is judgment. When we’re in a resting stage, we tend to treat it like a pathological problem that has to be fixed. And then we feel broken or stuck.

Or we try to force ourselves out of the resting stage, which usually leads to frustration, resentment and even more resistance. What often shifts things is the opposite: a softening, an opening and a magnetic curiosity.

Of course, if something feels painful or worrying, reaching out to a qualified professional is always okay. But low desire doesn’t automatically mean something is wrong with you.

That’s why I teach the five stages of s*xuality: Resting, Healing, Adventure, Learning, and Transcendence, originally popularized by intimacy pioneer Miss Jaiya. In my recorded masterclass, you’ll learn:

♥ Why the Resting Stage doesn’t mean something is wrong with you
♥ Why you can be in more than one stage at once
♥ How the Healing Stage uses pleasure as medicine
♥ The difference between the Adventure and Learning stages
♥ How to track your arousal over time with a simple scale

It’s a 60 minute recording with lifetime access, so you can watch on your own time, and it includes my 5 Stages Cheatsheet. It’s also a great one to share with a partner who seems to be in a different stage than you.

Get the recorded masterclass and your cheatsheet here: https://www.moreloveworks.com/offers/3JCGF7oD/checkout

On Instagram or YouTube? Check the Link Lounge in my bio for the masterclass link, past episodes, upcoming events, and more.

10/15/2026

When was the last time you and your partner went on a trip dedicated to your relationship?

I don’t mean a lovely hotel, a nice dinner and an afternoon by the pool. I mean a deep dive into your intimacy. Strengthening your bond. Having outrageous fun together in the bedroom, learning new skills, falling back in love, and really being there with and for each other in a way you maybe haven’t since you were first courting one another.

If you’ve been feeling a little out of practice with each other, you are not alone. Life gets busy, and the partnership is often the first thing we put on the back burner.

That’s why Dr. Willow Brown and I created The Sacred Spot Retreat, a weekend just for you and your partner:

♥ Santa Barbara, California: November 6 to 8, 2026

Over three days, you’ll learn four practices together:

♥ Building the Sacred Container, so you both feel safe and present
♥ Sacred Spot Massage, with breath, anatomy and clear giver and receiver roles
♥ Sensual Massage as Somatic Art, full body touch with presence
♥ Erotic Attunement, learning to read your partner’s body, breath and energy

You’ll also get a free Friday evening Ta**ra Introduction with your registration, and we keep each retreat to a maximum of 10 couples. Just 4 spots are left.

A few things so you know exactly what to expect: every practice demonstrated in the room is done with clothes on, and this is not an explicit s*xual experience. The hands-on practice happens privately between you and your partner. It’s educational, not therapy. Meals and accommodations are not included.

Isn’t it time to invest back into your partnership, into the intimate part of your life?

Book your weekend here: https://www.s*xreimagined.com/couples-retreat

On Instagram or YouTube? Check the Link Lounge in my bio for the retreat link, past episodes, upcoming events, and more.

10/14/2026

You know that thing where you want something, and then you talk yourself out of it?

You like someone, but you tell yourself you don’t, because you can’t be sure they like you back. You might not get what you want, so you pretend you don’t want it.

That is ambivalence, and it is the fourth piece of what stands between you and a peak erotic experience. It probably surprises you. It sneaks in so quietly that most of us never notice we are doing it.

I’ve been sharing the four pieces with you in these videos, and now we get to the best part: how do they relate to what YOU want? Do you want one or two of them? Do you need all four? Maybe only one is the key for you. Let’s explore what is possible together in my Peak Erotic Experiences Masterclass.

You will uncover the hidden pattern behind your hottest moments, learn the four forces behind peak erotic experiences, and do a guided process live with me to find your own pattern. No partner or background needed. It is educational and experiential, with no on screen nudity or explicit demonstration.

Wednesday, October 28th
4:00 PM PT / 7:00 PM ET
90 minutes, live on Zoom
Can’t make it live? You get a free 3 day replay, and there is an option to own the replay for life.

I would love to see you there. Save your seat here:
https://www.moreloveworks.com/offers/q5zQKFgN

Tell me in the comments: what is one thing you have talked yourself out of wanting? Find all my offerings, classes and consults in my Link Lounge at moreloveworks.com/leah-resources

10/14/2026

Why was that night the best ever? What exactly were the ingredients?

When I was first learning Ta**ra, I would be with my partner and it would be so amazing and beautiful that I would say, “Oh my God, that was the best ever.” It doesn’t happen all the time. But there are those moments that are transcendent.

And I never stopped to ask: why exactly was it the best ever? What makes a best ever? What is going on that makes it more intense than every other experience? Most of us fall into routine, and then there is that night, that morning, that moment that tops all the rest.

There is some really incredible research about this, and I’m teaching all about it in my next masterclass: Peak Erotic Experiences: What Made Them Unforgettable, and How to Stop Leaving It to Chance.

We will uncover the hidden pattern behind your hottest moments, explore the four forces behind peak erotic experiences, and do a guided process live together to find your own pattern. No partner or background needed. It is educational and experiential, with no on screen nudity or explicit demonstration.

Wednesday, October 28th
4:00 PM PT / 7:00 PM ET
90 minutes, live on Zoom
Can’t make it live? You get a free 3 day replay, and there is an option to own the replay for life.

Save your seat here, and I hope you can come:
https://www.moreloveworks.com/offers/q5zQKFgN

Tell me in the comments: do you remember your own “best ever”? Find all my offerings, classes and consults in my Link Lounge at moreloveworks.com/leah-resources

10/13/2026

Look at romance novels, erotica, and so much of what turns us on. They are filled with power dynamics. Why is that so alluring?

There is so much eros hiding inside the transgressive, and the exchange of power is one of the biggest reasons. So what is it about power dynamics that makes us melt?

I have some answers for you, and I’m sharing them in my next masterclass: Peak Erotic Experiences: What Made Them Unforgettable, and How to Stop Leaving It to Chance.

We will explore the hidden pattern behind your hottest moments, the four forces behind peak erotic experiences, and how to build more of them on purpose. You will even do a guided process live with me to uncover your own pattern.

Here is what to know:
Wednesday, October 28th
4:00 PM PT / 7:00 PM ET
90 minutes, live on Zoom
You do not need a partner or any background. It is educational and experiential, with no on screen nudity or explicit demonstration.
Can’t make it live? You get a free 3 day replay, and there is an option to own the replay for life.

Save your seat here:
https://www.moreloveworks.com/offers/q5zQKFgN

Find all my offerings, classes, and consults in my Link Lounge at moreloveworks.com/leah-resources

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