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Tamina Paris Visibility Coaching ⚡️Build the public presence to monetize your passion and spread your work.

10/18/2026

I MADE THIS VIDEO IN 2023!!! 😭

After 3 years away from dancing, I went to Tulum and by chance met these incredible women who were each finding their way back to dance too.

We rehearsed for a couple hours, hired someone to film us, made this beautiful piece of art…

and then I put it in my Google Drive for 3 YEARS. 😂

I have done this SO MANY TIMES.

Made something, watched it back, found something that wasn’t quite right, thought “oh we could do that better” and then just never released it.

The amount of art I’ve made that nobody has ever seen because I didn’t think it was good enough.

And even watching this video today, I’m looking at one of the moves like OH MY GOD. HOW DID I DO THAT?! 😂

That’s just pure p⭐️ssy. I can’t post that!!!

But I remember what it felt like doing it.

It was playful. Innocent...Joyful.

Like a little girl on a swing, enjoying moving her hips from side to side.

And now here I am, years later looking at that same movement through a completely different set of eyes.

It’s funny because so much of my work asks people to embrace parts of themselves they’ve been holding back.

And apparently I need to take my own medicine. 😂

Art is meant to be shared. It’s meant to be SEEN.

We called this performance MORE THAN ENOUGH.

Which feels pretty fking appropriate right now.

👉🏾 What have you made that nobody’s seen because you keep thinking it’s not good enough?

Maybe it’s already more than enough. ❤️ 😉

10/17/2026

🌹Brooke (Brooke Feldman (she/her)) came to Paint the Town thinking it might help her with visibility.

speaking differently. showing up differently.

she wasn’t entirely sure what she was signing up for 😂
but she was open.

and what she found was something she described as a PORTAL.

“A portal to stepping into a version of myself that I knew was there.”

I think so many women are walking around with a version of themselves they KNOW exists.

the woman who holds eye contact when she speaks.

who takes her time instead of rushing through what she wants to say.

who lets people look at her without immediately looking away.

who knows she has something valuable to offer and actually puts it in front of people.

Brooke said,
“Maybe I needed to give myself permission to be seen.”

YESSSS. ❤️

and the confidence she found wasn’t just for her business.

“Yes, I’m going to use this in my business. But even more so, I’m going to use it in my life.”

because the woman who can hold someone’s gaze, receive a compliment, speak her mind, take up space and let herself be witnessed…

gets to take that confidence EVERYWHERE.

on a date.

in a meeting.

at the dinner table.

in front of a camera.

in a room full of people she’s never met.

THIS is why I love this work so much.

and why Ayesha Ophelia and I are bringing Paint the Town back.

3 live days of movement, expression, visibility practice, creative play and being SEEN.

followed by 8 weeks of taking what you discovered into your actual life.

🎨 PAINT THE TOWN
October 23–25 | Live online

* 8 weeks of visibility practice
* final live mixer

if you’ve been feeling that there’s a version of you who’s been waiting for her turn…

comment PAINT and I’ll send you an invitation. ❤️

She had 900 followers.37 comments in one hour. Major players in her industry saying "this needed to be said."One session...
06/04/2026

She had 900 followers.

37 comments in one hour. Major players in her industry saying "this needed to be said."

One session.

She came to me wanting to be a recognized voice in sacred seggsuality and somatic work. But she was hiding behind aesthetic photos and reposting other people's posts while her actual thought leadership collected dust.

She's a 5/1 Mani Gen with her incarnation cross in Upheaval, literally designed to disrupt. But she was terrified of the backlash. Terrified of triggering her community.

So she stayed in the safe zone. And stayed invisible.

In one session, we stripped every layer of hiding until she was speaking fully unfiltered. We took that and turned it into a post.

It blew up immediately.

Now she has a stance. Her page is saying something real. She's in the comments playing with her audience like a pro, we both positive and negative responses. She's finally in her element.

And she's about to launch her program into an audience that's been marinating in her magnetic energy all summer. They'll be lining up to buy once her program drops 🤌🏾

This is what's possible when you stop making your brand pretty and start becoming a recognized voice in your field.

If you're ready for this kind of visibility💋 DM me "VISIBLE."

I didn’t realize at the time that this was also how I was posting online. That’s the part that really gets me now.Becaus...
05/24/2026

I didn’t realize at the time that this was also how I was posting online. That’s the part that really gets me now.

Because before this, I thought visibility was a strategy problem.
Maybe I needed better hooks?
Better messaging.
Better positioning.

Meanwhile I was literally treating visibility the exact same way I treated intimacy.
Carefully managed.
Emotionally pre-packaged.

Giving people enough of me to admire.
Enough of me to desire.
Enough of me to be impressed by.
But not enough of me to fully be seen.

And I think a lot of women are doing this without realizing it.
Trying to look emotionally stable instead of honest.
Trying to look healed instead of human.
Trying to look low-maintenance instead of actually being met.
Trying to become desirable while avoiding being vulnerable.

That was me.

Until I started understanding that being seen is *relational.*
It’s who you become in the presence of another person.

👉🏾What you reveal.
👉🏾What you hide.
👉🏾How you stay the same.
👉🏾How you change yourself.

And once I started recognizing the role of the other, I actually felt more of myself.

It wasn’t this scary thing or this performative thing anymore.
It felt natural.
Like something we forgot how to do.

That realization changed my relationships.
My visibility.
My business.
Everything.

Because what we hide is usually what they want.

If you’ve been feeling a visibility bottleneck in your business lately, your Stage Attachment pattern is probably underneath it.

🧩 Drop 'Quiz' to find the visibility pattern behind your business.

I attracted a dream client by existing in the world as myself. And I was afraid that I didn’t have the right words or de...
05/23/2026

I attracted a dream client by existing in the world as myself. And I was afraid that I didn’t have the right words or designs or backend funnel ready to sell my work.

I delayed meeting her because I thought I needed to prepare.

Turns out, all i needed was a bomb ass picture of me in the energy of my work to sell 2 high ticket packages at once.

My body did the selling for me.
I just allowed myself to be seen without worrying what the rest of the room was doing.

The Spotlight Carries a Power Seldom Used.In the spotlight you hold the attention of many.Attention, is something that c...
05/22/2026

The Spotlight Carries a Power Seldom Used.

In the spotlight you hold the attention of many.

Attention, is something that companies pay millions to capture, even on this very platform.

Attention is a relationship,
Where one force is locked onto the other.

There’s charge.
Heat,
Attraction.

So when you’re the one in the center of the room,
The center force drawing everyone’s eye to you…
There’s an undeniable erotizism.
A heat.
A charge.
A desire to combine.

Some people swirm with that increased amount of attention. It feels awkward to be seen wanted or wanting.
Some people freeze. Where does this go from here?
And some? Recognize the power of this moment and start wielding it.

They dance. They create. They expand.

If you carry something important inside of you,
An idea, a body of work, a new teaching, an experience, a game-changing business…
It needs EYES on it to thrive.
People need to see it.
And so…
They must see YOU.

You have been charged as the vessel to bring forth new collective ideas and consciousness by what you create through your business.

If you have an idea that needs more eyes,
A passion you wish to become a livelihood,
A mission you’re here to fulfill this lifetime and not the next

How you exist in the spotlight is everything.

The spotlight is where your message stalls or travels.
perfect doesn’t drip.
it doesn’t stain.
it doesn’t leave a mark.

Paint The Town is where you practice the courage, audacity and authenticity required to get paid for your passion and be wet for life as you do it.

Dry p🐱ssy energy can only get us so far ladies!
voice, visibility, and stage presence embodiment for your mission.

💌 Drop AUDICITY for the invite
Price goes up at the end of this week!

For years I thought my relationship with visibility meant I was inconsistent.🔥I would show up magnetic for a while.Ideas...
05/15/2026

For years I thought my relationship with visibility meant I was inconsistent.

🔥I would show up magnetic for a while.
Ideas flowing.
Creative energy high.
Sharing everything.

👻And then suddenly I would want to disappear.

I thought it meant I lacked discipline.
But what I eventually realized is that visibility is relational.

Everything changes the moment people start watching.

The real question isn’t:
“Can you show up?”

The real question is:
Can you stay present while you’re being seen? 👁️

Because when people say they want to “stop caring what people think”…
that’s actually not what they want.

We all care what ppl think.

We just don’t want the care to shut us down.
We want to be able to think, speak, create, and respond while people are watching.

That’s a different skill.
And everyone develops a stage attachment pattern around it.

Some people hide.
Some perform.
Some oscillate between magnetic and hermetic.

📖 A TrueRead shows you exactly which pattern you’re operating from, and how to stabilize your relationship with visibility so your best work can actually be seen.

If this post felt uncomfortably accurate…
👉🏾 DM me TRUEREAD to get your reading.

💬 I’m curious: have you noticed yourself doing this hot 🥵 cold 🥶 pattern with visibility?

For the woman who wants to get paid top dollar for the thing only she specifically can do. 👑Not the 9 to 5.Not the 5 to ...
05/15/2026

For the woman who wants to get paid top dollar for the thing only she specifically can do. 👑

Not the 9 to 5.
Not the 5 to 9.
Not the never-ending side hustle where your actual work keeps getting treated like the thing you do after everything else is done.

Your purpose.
Your path.
Your passion.
💰And getting paid for that.

Visibility is the key because visibility is what allows your greater talents and gifts to be fully seen.

But visibility is tricky.
It’s not just about more people seeing you.
It’s what happens inside of you once those people see you.

🧩That’s what I call a stage attachment pattern.

Because visibility is a relationship.

They see you.
Something happens in you.
And then they receive information from how you show up in that moment.

👉🏾Some people avoid the connection 🔍
You teach intimacy, but people ask about your own relationship and you’re like…
oh, no comment.
I’m not talking about it.
My love life is a mess.

👉🏾Some people overperform.🎭
Someone asks what you do and the answer changes every time.
Somatic coach.
Mindset coach.
Artist.
Consultant.
Whatever works for that room.

👉🏾Some people are magnetic.🔥
They go viral one second, and the next week they ghost.
Need space from their profile.
Need space from posting.
Need space from being seen.

👉🏾Some people can hold attention.⚡️
But they don’t know how to let that attention turn into being overbooked.

This is what we’re talking about inside the free Visibility Salon on May 19.

✔️The art of showing up in the spotlight.
✔️Getting paid to be yourself.
✔️Advancing your career by letting the world see exactly who you are.

🌹Comment SALON and I’ll send you the link.

Being seen is a relationship. 🔄Just like romantic relationships have attachment styles…so does your relationship with th...
05/14/2026

Being seen is a relationship. 🔄
Just like romantic relationships have attachment styles…
so does your relationship with the spotlight.

🔑 This is what I call Stage Attachment.

If you recognized yourself in A, B, or C, you don’t have a visibility problem.
You need Secure Public Power.

Once you understand your stage attachment style, you can begin rewriting the patterns that are putting a ceiling on the reach of your message and career trajectory. 🫰🏽

If you're an ORIGINAL -- your talent is out of this world and yet not fully in the world...yet.

Chances are, you don't have a problem with your messaging or the results your work can create, you're just functioning from a visibility pattern that's preventing your work from being fully seen, known and respected.

If you feel there's an invisible ceiling on your career and want to break through it so you can be paid to express the work you live, breathe and deliver by being yourself...

Book a TRUEREAD for a public presence audit to decode the visibility pattern holding the key to your work echoing throughout your industry.

Leading to
More eyes on you
More you being you
More money in the bank 💰

The Spotlight doesn't reveal your talent, it reveals your relationship with being seen.

Let's make it a good one ;)

DM 'TRUEREAD' to book your session.
I do 10 reads per month.

🤫 P.S you can also comment STAGE below to access the secret offer to find out which stage attachment style you are and how to rewire your relationship with being seen…

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