10/03/2026
Update on Jemma:
Thursday, we got to KC about midnight and checked into the ER there, they brought her back quickly and consulted with neurology and neurosurgery while we waited. I explained all of her symptoms and conditions again and they ordered more labs, a viral panel, and an XRay Shunt Series. They admitted Jemma into the hospital and got her into a room at about 5 am, they kept her for further observation of seizures and planned for her to have an MRI the next day. Jemma remained stable and did not have another seizure. They were finally able to get her sedated and into MRI at about 3 pm yesterday. I asked for neurosurgery consult 3 times by this time, to no avail.
Because her ventricles are not enlarged, and the shunt appears to be draining, and the shunt series is also unremarkable and it appears to be working, they do not want to pursue any further into the shunt over-draining being the problem. Even after I explained the sudden Ataxia episode with difficulty walking, vomiting and sudden breakthrough seizure, Neurosurgery referred back to Neurology, and they believe that because all the tests showed the VP shunt was working, and the MRI is stable with no significant changes from baseline scans, they believe this seizure resulting in status and the extended post-ictal state (after seizure lethargy & recovery period) is a development of her drug-resistant epilepsy condition worsening. I’m so frustrated, and so exhausted.
Yesterday evening we decided since we were getting nowhere with the specialty consults, there was no further testing ordered, and most likely they were just waiting to round tomorrow morning and discharge her anyway, so we asked the attending doctor to expedite the process and just let us leave that evening. Jemma was on the general Peds unit and had a great attending physician there, but the way the medical system is set up and it being the weekend, her hands were essentially tied and she had nothing more she could do but have us wait. I hate when specialties do this and bounce us back and forth, because neither wants to investigate any further, they both throw their hands up. Neurosurgery doesn’t believe Slit Ventricle Syndrome could be the cause of this but they won’t even try to rule it out and frankly, I have learned they’re the type to step back until every other specialty has worked to rule out every other possible cause until they are the last one left and once other doctors have figured it out for them, then they act.
Neurology believes this just her epilepsy worsening and MRI shows mesial temporal sclerosis and that is consistent with her Epilepsy condition but does not explain the Ataxia. In this case they just refuse to believe it could be SVS because it’s so “rare” and did not even come to allow me to plead my case and discuss the possibility of SVS. Rare means nothing to me, her cancer was rare, the surgery survival rate was rare, epilepsy and infantile spasms were rare, the fact that Jemma can still walk and talk is rare. So many things about her are rare, and using rarity as an excuse to refuse to keep looking is a disservice to Jemma.
The attending doctor agreed that a second opinion is never a bad idea. So at about 8 pm, we left the hospital and headed home. We stopped for the night halfway to get some sleep and now we’re on the road to drive the rest of the way home. If Jemma worsens, we’ll do this again and take her in to be seen and push for transfer to a different hospital. In the meantime, I plan to call and look into other hospitals and for more options and get a fresh set of eyes to look at her scans.
Thank you all for praying, Jemma’s last post had so many comments and was spread to so many people from everywhere. We’re so grateful, we read every single comment and message and we are thankful for every single prayer and word of encouragement. 💛
Even when things in life are not good, we know that God is. I’ll never know the reason for suffering, especially for children and why He won’t take it away. But I don’t think we’re meant to know that. If God would audibly answer that question for me, I would probably just ask another question and it would never be enough. What I do know, is that this can’t compare to the joy that’s coming. I have hope we will figure this out. I know that God has been near all the time, I know that He isn’t surprised by anything, nor is He overwhelmed by our problems or questions, He’s steady. He sees it all and is with us in it. He’s listened to every desperate plea, frustration and outright anger we’ve had. He’s provided so much comfort, peace and presence. That is enough.
He has provided miracle after miracle already. Jemma is physical evidence of that. The first time Jemma got out of bed during this hospital stay, the nurse was in the room and turned around to look and gasped “SHE CAN WALK?!” She was in disbelief. “Look at her! She’s walking?!” “How can she walk?” I laughed and told her yes, she can walk and eat and communicate in her own way, but yes she can do all of that. I told her Jemma is a living miracle. She was so shocked, she said that what she had judged by looking at Jemma’s chart, scans and medical history, she never expected to see her walk. She had chills and tears in her eyes watching Jemma trot her merry way down the hall to the playroom. I was reminded again of how much God has done and how immensely grateful I am for that. We get caught up in the difficulties we have and sometimes forget how blessed we have been. 💛
Jemma will continue to defy the impossibilities and will never let history and suffering define her. 💛
I’ll keep you all updated as we work on figuring out next steps. 🎗️