02/12/2022
Do you ever worry that maybe reaching your health goals wonât be worth it?
Have you feared that maybe you just donât have the dedication, commitment, or willpower to get there?
Like maybe for some people, âbeing skinnyâ is worth all the sacrifice, but to you, at times, it doesnât feel that wayâŚ
It doesnât feel worth your peace of mind, being present with your friends and family, or your free time just to look different.
Well Iâm here to tell you that youâre right, itâs not.
Just being skinnier wonât make you happier. It wonât make you more likable. It wonât make you enjoy your life so much more.
Trust me, I know.
You have to do that for yourself FIRST. Then, you can let your physical results change as a symptom of feeling so much better about yourself and your lifeâŚ
To really have the experience you want of looking better AND feeling better about yourself, you first have to find Ok-ness with exactly where you are in your current body and your current life.
The harder you try to resist where you are now, the longer you will stay there.
You have to accept that the body and the life you have now is OK.
AND THEN, from that place of ok-ness, you can finally look at your situation logically.
You can start to ask yourself useful questions like â
What am I willing to do for my health every single day, even if it doesnât change how I look?
What habits do I want to work on, just for me?
What simple, doable changes could I make to feel even better about myself right now?
This is how you find the way thatâs going to work for you. You stop looking for the quick fix and following what other people do believing thatâs the only wayâŚ
Because if it costs your enjoyment of your life or you enjoyment of food â itâs not worth it anyways.
There are a million and one ârightâ ways to do it. You just have to find the one thatâs right for YOU.
But I can promise you this: finding your right way always starts from a place of love for who and where you are now.