06/11/2026
If you’ve talked to me recently, you know I’ve been filled with a little trepidation about summer.
The transitions.
The driving.
The lack of structure.
The realization that time is moving quickly and I now basically have two teenagers.
I know I’m not alone in these feelings. And what I keep coming back to—both from my own experiences and from years of working with clients—is this:
I can’t control the summer. (Though, trust me, I may try my best.)
I can’t control every schedule change, every emotion, every moment of time slipping by.
But I can control how I show up.
And the truth is, you don’t just wake up one day and decide, “I’m going to be more present.” It’s like saying you’re going to run a marathon without preparing your mind and body for the miles ahead. It doesn’t work that way.
Showing up well requires taking care of the foundations.
For me, that means movement. Sleep. Nourishing food. Connection with people I love—or quiet when I need it. Reflection, prayer, and moments to process.
That’s how I prepare for what I can’t control.
So this morning—the very first morning of summer—I ran.
A long, quiet run to move my body, clear my mind, reflect, and prepare myself for the next three months.
A summer that I know will be messy, chaotic, beautiful, fleeting, and filled with moments I don’t want to miss.
I can’t control the summer.
But I can control how I meet it.