05/22/2026
A lot of people assume the reason you go to the gym is to get “toned,” lose weight, or build huge muscles. Or you’re a runner, who’s at the gym training for a marathon.
People might assume my reason for lifting is because I love building huge bulky muscle 😉 or competing on a platform lifting heavy weights.
While I do love both of those things… that’s not actually the heart behind why I train.
I train because of the freedom and independence it gives me.
I want to be able to confidently carry heavy groceries up a flight of stairs, be able to lift my couch to vacuum underneath it, lift a heavy box from the floor, be able to walking through the woods knowing I can step up onto fallen logs that have been blown down by a storm and know I can get down from them safely. All while trusting that my body is capable of handling it!
Strength training gives me the ability to live my life fully both now and in the future.
Because the truth is, I’m not just training for who I am today. I’m training for the person I want to be 20–30 years from now.
I want to stay active, capable, and independent as I age. I don’t want to live in fear of injury, breaking a bone, or feeling limited in my own body.
I want to know I’ll still be able to carry my own groceries, explore outdoors, play with future grandkids, and continue doing the things I love for as long as possible.
Strength training (plus a little cardio 😜) is one of the best ways to support longevity, mobility, bone health, and overall quality of life. And yes as a bonus feel more comfortable in your own body because let’s be honest. We all feel a lot better about our self image with a little more muscle on :)
And if you’re someone who has been wanting to try lifting weights but feel nervous or worried about what other people might think, remember this:
every strong person you see in the gym once started exactly where you are. Every single one of them started with an empty barbell too.