28/03/2022
“OMG I wish I would have found you sooner...”
I recently had my DMs flooded with heartbreak from so many mamas after I shared my story about breastfeeding through a tongue tie.
Where no matter how much I wanted to help my baby… I (along with the people I sought help from) didn’t know how.
So much so that even after 5 years… my baby boy that made me a mama is still struggling with a tongue tie.
But we’re FINALLY getting help. Because I know more. Because the people on our team know more. We are helping my baby (he will forever be my baby 🥰).
Now I could toss all the sayings at you about this...
“Hindsight is always 20/20.”
“When we KNOW better, we can DO better.”
The hurt is still there though. The guilt. The regret. I get it. I am living it too.
I find what most often helps take the sting away is this:
“We do the best we can with the information we have at the time.”
And we are STILL doing our best, but now we have more information, so our best now is better than our best then.”
Knowing new things now (that are different than what you did before) does not change the fact that you WERE and STILL ARE an AMAZING MOM. We’re all just learning as we go!
That’s why I am all about keeping you educated and informed on your breastfeeding journey. So you can learn keep learning. Keep growing. Keep getting better.
If you want to read more about my story, check out my highlight called 👅Function!
Off the top of your head - what’s one thing you learned from this space? Let other mamas know it too in the comments!