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15/06/2026

we’re going to take the W where we can.

11/06/2026

I loveeeeee a good sweep.
zero to ten: what would you rate your sweep (re:pain, and was it effective)?

09/06/2026

Way less intimidating for someone to check themselves when it’s less “exam” like.

03/06/2026

Every shirt and/or donation will go directly to the helping those uninsured or underinsured receive treatment for breast cancer. Here’s an example of every dollar amount raised and how much good will come from this:

$25 - a comfort care bag
$50 - copay for an office visit
$100 - one chemo session
$500 - lumpectomy
$1,000 - one radiation treatment
$2,500 - complete medical care for an underinsured patient

28/05/2026

I’m thankful you’re here. I just hate the reason we might understand each other.

27/05/2026

What I pack in my chemo bag.

26/05/2026

I’m sure it’s lovely under normal circumstances. We’ll try this one again in 6 months. 🫤

25/05/2026

I walked out of that appointment needing to find a breast oncologist and stopped my HRT cold turkey (that’s a whole separate story).

27/10/2020

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I woke up this morning to news being shared about a loss within our medical community.

Dr. Chaniece Wallace lost her life to pre-eclampsia this past weekend. She was the Chief Pediatrics Resident at Indiana School of Medicine.

On October 20th, 2020, Dr. Wallace gave birth to her daughter, Charlotte via c-section at 36 weeks.

Despite delivery of her daughter, Dr. Wallace continued to have complications related to pre-eclampsia, including a ruptured liver, impaired kidney function, and elevated blood pressure.

I am so saddened. My heart hurts for her family. For her husband. For her daughter that will never get to feel a hug from her mama. For her medical team that has to process the past several days.

How do we continue to fail black womxn? Dr. Wallace was educated. She had access to care. How did she become part of a statistic that black womxn are ~3-4x more likely to die in childbirth when compared to white womxn?

How, as a medical community do we do better? In a system that prides itself on protocol and process improvement, how do we continue to fail womxn?

If we, as womxn’s health care providers cannot understand how this occurs, then we need more attention on this. We need to understand how our protocols, and policies, and processes can improve.

We need transparent communication.

We need root cause analysis of US maternal deaths not for fear of litigation, but for maternal health improvement.

Rest in Power, Dr. Wallace.

18/10/2020

Post Call.

I’m often asked how I balance being a midwife with my life at home with my husband and two kids.

This morning, I walked out of the hospital to head home after a 24 hour call shift. Twenty-one of those hours I spent in and out of clients’ rooms.

Today I feel drained. Mentally and physically.

Midwifery is not for the weak. But neither is marriage or parenting.

The reality of being a midwife is there is always a blurred line between work and home.

There are times like today, I parent on autopilot until I can get a nap. Days I raced from the hospital to
get to an awards ceremony or arrived late to a game. We’ve said ‘goodnights’ by phone, spent family
dinners at the hospital, and late-night kisses long after bedtimes.

But kids are resilient, and a good partner is supportive. Many of the same traits we experience at a birth
are just a continuation of life at home.

Flexibility. Support. Patience.

We find balance knowing that just
as in life, we have easy days, and days we need to make easier by ordering some good take-out and a
nap!

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