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Play With Me Inject some excitement into your sex life or add to your ever growing toy collection! Carmen Ely, Founder of Play With Me

Play. With. Me. Be Bold, Stay Playful
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Three words that are an experience, an invitation and a manifesto. Three words that are about fun, intimacy and a love of self. While Play With Me is indeed a premium supplier of intimate adult products, what we believe in and what we strive for is so much more than that. I created the Play With Me brand in celebration of my own journey and the discovery of my own inner strength. It's important to take a refreshing, frank approach to sex, intimacy, adventure and indulgence, whether in ‘solo’ engagements or within a loving relationship. Play With Me is a conversation starter. A place where we meet women and men who are looking for something more, even if they aren’t too sure what that ‘more’ is. While we are happy to provide a range of the very best intimate items, our vision includes an understanding where our clients are coming from emotionally, to look at the root causes of intimacy issues and unfulfilling physical and emotional relationships. And so we return to Play With Me. Play – Have fun, be naughty, be nice, be classy, be slutty in a classy way and discover what it is you really want. With – Get intimate, understand, forgive, learn, work through issues of self-image and self-doubt. Remember what got your heart racing in the first place. Liberate, release and enjoy! Me – Learn to love yourself again. Love your perfect imperfections. Before you can teach your partner how to love you and give you pleasure, remember how to truly love yourself and what gave, and gives, you pleasure. To those of you who read this and think, “It’s easy for you to say, I can’t do it, I am too embarrassed, too afraid, too alone” I have this message for you: I was where you are, and it almost cost me everything. My first, brave step was admitting that there is so much more that I want and deserve. I started by discovering who I am, I prioritise myself, I have learned to love who I am and how to feel the pleasure I now understand and deserve. I did it alone, it was tough, but I did it. I would love to join you on your journey. You can do it, you really, really can. So let’s start now, a world of wonderful experiences awaits!

08/10/2026

Stella & I are still here keeping the economy up and running! Might look like I've been dragged through the bushes backwards but I do it with love! 😄😘

So… what actually happens at one of our rope bo***ge workshops? 👀🪢Gerry joined us to teach and wrote about the experienc...
03/10/2026

So… what actually happens at one of our rope bo***ge workshops? 👀🪢

Gerry joined us to teach and wrote about the experience from the other side of the rope.

No porn-movie theatrics. No expectation to know what you’re doing. Just connection, learning and a whole lot of rope!

New blog is live ❤️

https://playwithme.co.za/blogs/blog

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I mean… LOOK at her 🌈🌹🥰The Rainbow Rose Special Edition is giving soft girl x chaos vibes and I'm obsessed!She’s cute, s...
02/10/2026

I mean… LOOK at her 🌈🌹🥰

The Rainbow Rose Special Edition is giving soft girl x chaos vibes and I'm obsessed!

She’s cute, she’s rechargeable, she’s water-resistant, and she comes with her own little charging stand like the queen she is 🤍

Available now.

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Discreet delivery nationwide.

A few weeks ago, I had a moment where I felt incredibly censored. Yes, even ME 😂And to be fair, under the circumstances ...
01/10/2026

A few weeks ago, I had a moment where I felt incredibly censored. Yes, even ME 😂

And to be fair, under the circumstances it was completely understandable. But the truth is, we grow up being censored in a hundred tiny ways.

I work in an industry where we have to tiptoe around social media, I need to make sure I don’t phone you about your order while you’re carpooling home with half the neighbourhood, and I need to warn my friends about incoming voice notes before they hit play 🤣

I can be appropriate, I promise. But I’m also probably freer than most when it comes to talking about all manner of things and even I have to remind myself sometimes that not everyone is on the same free page.

So it's no wonder that when it comes to telling your partner what you actually want s*xually, the words suddenly get stuck!

Not because your needs don’t matter or because there’s anything wrong with them, but because that little built-in “what if I’m judged?” voice is still very much alive.

I get it. I’ve been in the hot seat for speaking openly more than once over the years 😅

But please don’t take that same silence into your relationship.

If you’re battling to talk to your partner about your s*xual needs, go have a read through our latest blog: How to Talk to Your Partner About Sexual Needs: 4 Scripts That Work. Perhaps it helps 🤗

https://playwithme.co.za/blogs/blog

In the meantime I'll be over here refusing to be silenced 😉🤣❤️

12/09/2026

All things Women's Health today, and you know how much I love being out and about! 🤩

Are you joining us?

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09/09/2026

The things you find when you move… 😂🍒

Meet Goldilocks & ...... well.......Goldilocks 2! Two long forgotten moulds unearthed during the Great Play With Me Move of 2026 😂

Naturally, they’re getting sprayed gold and becoming bookends because what else am I supposed to do with them? 😉😂👌

And yes, our building is sold and we are moving!

But before anyone sends flowers or starts a support group, we’re not going very far, we'll still be right here in Lonehill only a couple of kms down the road! 😉

🛍️ Shop online
🚚 Courier & Uber collections
📲 WhatsApp or call me
🍒 Private shopping by appointment

Same Play With Me. Same Carmen. More convenience. New chapter.

As always, be bold & stay playful!
Carmen

www.playwithme.co.za⁠

Address

Shop C5, The Gantry Lifestyle Centre, Lonehill
Sandton
2062

Opening Hours

Monday 09:00 - 18:00
Tuesday 09:00 - 18:00
Wednesday 09:00 - 18:00
Thursday 09:00 - 18:00
Friday 09:00 - 18:00
Saturday 09:00 - 14:00
Sunday 10:00 - 14:00

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+27870125485

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