18/06/2026
I remember watching a colleague facilitate an intergenerational exchange group years ago. She was prompting the room with questions that sparked instant curiosity, openness, and a genuine willingness to share. I was inspired.
I admired her skill and wanted to learn the art. Now, 20 years later, I know I was absolutely right—asking questions is an art. It is a skill that improves lives, builds bridges, and fills the gaps.
Change in life almost always starts with a question. The prompt you use sets the direction, the scope, and the tone of your search.
In fairness, when you work with a coach or a counsellor, you are largely employing their ability to ask the kinds of questions that expand your perspective. But you don't have to wait for a session to start. Start today by mindfully observing the character of your questions.