Mo’Unique

20/10/2026

20/10/2026

Some relationships leave us with lessons we only understand later. I’m learning to listen to myself, honour what I need, and choose peace as I heal. 🤍
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08/10/2026

Islam encourages forgiveness, but forgiveness does not mean repeatedly accepting harm.

We can forgive for the sake of Allah while still learning from what happened, setting healthy boundaries, withholding trust and seeking justice when necessary. Forgiveness, trust and reconciliation are not the same—and protecting yourself is not cruelty.

Mercy and wisdom can exist together. Forgiveness is not weakness, and justice is not revenge. 🤍

References: Qur’an 42:40–43 and Sahih al-Bukhari 6133. Allah knows best.

07/10/2026

NEW POST 🤍

What does Islam teach about the financial and household responsibilities of a husband and wife?

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07/10/2026

One of the things I value about Islam is the protection it gives women within marriage.

A husband carries the responsibility of financially maintaining his wife and family according to his means. A wife’s dowry, earnings and personal wealth belong to her. If she chooses to contribute financially, that is an act of generosity—not something her husband is automatically entitled to demand.

This does not mean marriage should become a competition over who does more. Marriage is built upon mercy, fairness, cooperation and mutual care. The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ himself served and helped his family at home, showing that household responsibilities should never be treated as work that is beneath a man.

There are different scholarly opinions regarding the exact division of household duties, so I would not claim that a woman has “zero responsibility” in every interpretation. What is clear is that Islam places financial maintenance upon the husband, protects the wife’s personal wealth, and encourages both spouses to treat one another with kindness.

A healthy Islamic marriage is not about using rights against each other. It is about both people fulfilling their responsibilities while helping one another with love and mercy.

References: Qur’an 4:4, 4:32, 4:34 and 65:7 | Sahih al-Bukhari 676

Allah knows best.

30/09/2026

Sometimes overthinking makes me question everything — what happened, what I said, what I could have done differently. And in the middle of that spiral, a painful thought can appear: “Maybe I’m the problem.”

Past hurt can affect how we experience the present. When we’ve been through difficult or traumatic experiences, uncertainty may feel frightening, and we might blame ourselves as a way to make sense of what’s happening. But a thought that feels convincing isn’t automatically a fact.

It can help to pause and ask: What do I know for sure? What am I assuming? Am I taking responsibility for my part, or blaming myself for everything?

Self-reflection matters, but so does self-compassion. You can learn and grow without treating yourself as the cause of every difficult thing. And if these thoughts feel overwhelming or keep returning, talking with someone you trust or a mental health professional may help.

You deserve patience as you work through what you’ve experienced. 💛

29/04/2026

My first ever post. ❤️

29/04/2026

I realized that FB had missplaced all my pins "photo' albums. Now I will have to re-upload them...thank FB (Grrrrr)