03/09/2026
BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU AGREE TO IN YOUR DREAMSTATE
On a daily basis when I am doing SRT (Spirit Release Therapy) clearings on my clients, I find dark contracts. I wish they were a rare occurrence, but they have been an issue for as long as we humans have been on this planet. It’s time more people learned about them, so here we are.
For those who may not know, a “dark contract” is an energetic agreement or ‘permission slip’ to relinquish the individual’s free will to the control of a dark entity. These agreements can influence your energy, thoughts, attention, emotions, dreams, relationships, your finances and countless other aspects of your life.
One of the biggest concerns often discussed in SRT circles is the possibility of being deceived by these dark entities within the dream state.
When you are meditating, remote viewing, dreaming, or astral projecting, your normal critical thinking and awareness can be skewed or altered. A dream figure may appear as someone you trust… a loved one, a spirit guide, an angel, a galactic friend, a deceased relative, a romantic partner, or even a familiar authority figure or famous person. The figure you meet in your dream may then ask you to sign something, eat something, make a promise, accept an object, shake hands, give permission, say “yes,” or agree with them to a particular statement. This is a huge red flag. 🚩
Beings of light, loved ones, soul guides.. they would never ask this of you.
The most important thing to remember is: you do not have to agree to anything in a dream.
If something feels weird, wrong, threatening, manipulative, or confusing, you can stop the interaction. You can mentally state during the dream:
“NO. I do not consent!”
If you wake up feeling a bit concerned due to a strange dream, feeling or sensation, you can then say aloud:
“I revoke any permission or agreements I may have unknowingly or unconsciously given while I was asleep. Only beings aligned with my highest good are permitted in my space.”
Then do a cord cutting, and make a statement aloud that you “call all your energy back to you”.
Then call in your soul guides and do your psychic protection.
You can also practice discernment. Just because something looks like an angel, soul guide, deceased loved one, or other benevolent figure in a dream doesn’t automatically mean you have to trust it. Pay attention to how the interaction feels and whether you are being at all pressured, frightened, manipulated, or rushed into saying things, doing things, or making an agreement.
BEFORE GOING TO BED, TRY THIS:
• Set a clear intention for peaceful, positive dreams, and do your best to avoid TV or social media for at least 30-60 min before you go to sleep. (No doomscrolling especially!)
• State that you do not consent to unwanted agreements before bed. Something like: “Making agreements with anyone while I am asleep is forbidden”… “My subconscious may not make contracts or agreements on my behalf while I am asleep”
• Ask your trusted soul guides, your gatekeeper (your protector soul guide) or your favorite God/deity according to your beliefs, to protect and guide you throughout the night.
• Visualize yourself surrounded by a sphere of beautiful protective light. Fill that sphere with thoughts of gratitude and the things you love. (You can also visualize suits of armor, invisibility cloaks, etc)
• Avoid going to sleep while you’re feeling frightened, angry, or emotionally overwhelmed whenever possible. On those really tough days, at least try to give yourself a few minutes to become calm and grounded first. Put on some high vibe music and shake off any energy that isn’t yours. Remember the old saying “Never go to sleep angry!” This is so we don’t attract and feed the beasties!
• Keep your bedroom clean, cleansed, peaceful, high vibe and comfortable.
• If you use spiritual practices such as prayer, meditation, crystals, or protective rituals, incorporate the ones that are most meaningful to you. It doesn’t have to be a whole big thing, but it does need to be done consistently. The one night you forget, you might pick up a hitchhiker. (It only takes 2-5 minutes to call back your energy, cut your cords, ground yourself, visualize psychic protection and call in your guides. So do what you can to make sure you remember!)
• Also remember that you can ask your soul guides to keep you in your body at night so you don’t go astral wandering. It will also better ensure you don’t ‘leak’ any of your energy unknowingly, and wake up more tired in the morning because of it.
And remember: a dream cannot force you to make a spiritual agreement. If you wake from a disturbing dream feeling that you agreed to something, or if you ate something, or if you accepted a gift… don’t panic. Sometimes loved ones do give us gifts so it’s OK to receive a gift. It’s okay to have a dream where you baked cookies with grandma and ate the cookies together. It’s the weird dreams to be mindful of. When they try to force you to say things, or accept things under pressure, or if they are giving excessive flattery and offering you things.
If you wake up and things just feel ‘off’… Again, don’t panic, as panic can create negative thought-forms or it can attract dark entities who are always sniffing around, looking for fear and other forms of emotional sustenance. You just need to feel things out. Ground yourself, reaffirm your boundaries, do your protections again, smudge your space, cut your cords, (you can also ask your soul guides to cut the ones you missed) and remind yourself that YOU are in control of what YOU consciously choose to accept.
- Written by Lara Starr