03/06/2026
One of the hardest parts can be remembering that your child isn't experiencing the world the same way you are.
Sometimes as parents, we look at a situation and think:
"I've explained this already."
"Why is this still happening?"
"Why can't they just remember?"
And it can be really confusing when the same challenges keep showing up.
But often, it's not about not listening.
It's not about not caring.
And it's not usually about trying to make life difficult.
Sometimes it's a child doing the best they can with a brain that processes things differently.
I think one of the biggest shifts is moving from:
"Why are they doing this?" to "What might be making this hard for them?"
That doesn't mean there shouldn't be expectations or boundaries.
But it can change the way we respond.
Because when we understand what's underneath the behaviour, it's often easier to support the child in front of us rather than the child we expected them to be.
And honestly, most parents are learning as they go.