17/02/2021
When you desire something, but don't believe you can have it, what are you attracting?
Imagine you really want to lose weight, but you don't think its going to be easy, well, according to the laws of the universe (your mind) it attracts more negative thinking about your weight.
The attraction of negative thoughts makes you feel disappointed that how you feel is not up to speed with what you need to do to lose weight.
So you're stuck, wanting to be already on a diet and doing something good for your body, and yet here you are, holding onto the energy that makes you feel sluggish, powerless and uninspired to even want to eat a salad!
It's NOT because losing weight can't happen or won't happen easily for you, that's not the problem, although most people see it that way. Which is why diets wont work for everybody.
The problem is your focus. Or another term for it is your attention, which is energy, which we could also call your attitude, opinion or the mood because it is locked in and set to how you USUALLY feel about losing weight.
Do you feel satisfied or unsatisfied about your weight right now?
Look at your past. Now think about your future. Has losing weight been easy or difficult, what will it be like in years to come?
Whatever torch you still hold onto about your weight loss experiences are still with you today.
For you to change the course of what you are attracting, you need to let go and stop holding onto your past, from suffering diets and exercise, time and money, because when you do feel negative reaction about your weight, by commenting, judging, criticizing, and resenting your body and your unwanted behaviours, all your thoughts gather around, so you continually keep attracting more THOUGHTS and FEELINGS just like it.
It's not what you want, but its all that you think about.
Your mind thinks about how difficult it is for you to lose weight, which is 95% subconscious programming, that is up against 5% of your words screaming I don't want to be fat anymore!
In this example, can you see what is being attracted?
I don't want to be fat, I hate being overweight and its hard for me to lose weight...
So the Universe (or subconscious programming) say's okay, I'll send you more of that, since that's all you seem to think about all the time. Here; you go!
A diet is not the perfect answer. Why not?
Because it changes the body, not the mindset attached to it. That part of you is still locked into fear about remaining overweight and never changing.
That negative content of your self-talk is the 95% of attraction. Yep, you're the one doing it, never blame the diet or your PT.
Diet or exercise feels like its only 5% of a good idea to try and lose weight, right? It gives only 5% motivation to change, yeah?
Change your 95% focus of negative attention and you change the attraction.
You can relax into weight loss or anything you want by starting with your mind.