17/05/2026
I’m breaking up my normal feed with something I feel very strongly about.
Today is IDAHOBIT….as a q***r woman myself, a mum, and a clinician, this day matters does matter to me. I’m a femme-presenting le***an with three children, which means I’m often met with the assumption. I understand where that comes from, it is the story society has always defaulted to, but the language and assumptions we lead with really do need to shift.
I will be honest (as always), I haven’t lived through the judgement and abuse so so many in our community carry daily. I truly hold that with awareness, it genuinely makes me sick that in 2026 so many people are still met without care or thoughtful language, especially in spaces meant to support them. I know that discomfort shows up in clinical rooms too, I do hear this often from people is see regularly. That feeling of the bracing before a consult with a practitioner or GP and the rehearsal of what to share and what not too, will they judge me, won’t they… will it make a difference on how they treat me… That bracing has a real impact and your body was never meant to feel like that in the spaces that are meant to help it heal and help you.
So today I want to acknowledge you all in the community, as a q***r woman and as a clinician, my space will always be without judgement, without assumption and 100% without conditions. You are seen and are welcome here. Also a reminder of you ever do feel judged or discriminated, please do look for another practitioner. 💛
All my love, Tara x 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️