23/06/2026
What has your nervous system lived through?
We often ask…
“Do you have ADHD?”
“Do you have anxiety?”
“Do you have depression?”
But perhaps another question deserves to be asked first.
What has your nervous system experienced?
Think about your own life.
Falls.
Sport.
Car accidents.
Concussions.
Whiplash.
Being knocked unconscious.
Years of physical work.
Stress.
Loss.
Poor sleep.
Illness.
Each one teaches the nervous system something.
Each one leaves an imprint.
For me…
I played both rugby league and rugby union.
I was in car accidents.
I was jumped on while trapped underwater.
I knocked myself unconscious doing a tumble turn in a swimming pool and had to be pulled out.
I split my head open surfing.
I was hit in the head with a cricket bat.
I was speared into the ground on a football field.
Then, years later, I smashed my face into the Busselton Jetty.
Looking back…
I wonder how much those experiences shaped the way my nervous system functioned.
I was often restless.
Quick to anger.
Always searching.
Never quite settled.
Today, after years of studying neuroscience and spending countless hours rebuilding my own nervous system through movement, breathing and sensory integration…
I feel different.
Calmer.
More connected.
More focused.
Not because I’ve become a different person…
But because my nervous system functions differently.
I’m not saying everyone’s story is the same.
Nor am I suggesting every difficulty comes from trauma or injury.
But I do wonder…
How often do we look only at the diagnosis and forget to ask about the journey?
Maybe before we ask,
“What’s wrong with your brain?”
We should ask,
“What has your brain and body lived through?”
I’d genuinely love to hear your thoughts.