05/09/2026
I had such a good day today.
I woke up early, went for a big walk along the beach, had a sauna and a swim, cleaned up a little, went to the shops and came home and started a herb garden.
Nothing extraordinary happened.
I was just… happy.
Quietly happy.
And I remember a time when I genuinely wondered if I would ever feel like this again.
There were days when I didn’t want to get out of bed. I’d drag myself out for a walk because I knew I ‘should’, but I didn’t enjoy it. I didn’t really enjoy much of anything.
It felt like the clouds had come in and forgotten to leave.
But they didn’t.
That’s something we forget when we’re in a hard season - it feels permanent while we’re living it.
But nothing stays the same forever.
There is yin and yang in everything. Light and dark. Energy and rest. Grief and joy. Seasons where we’re growing and seasons where we’re simply getting through.
And sometimes you don’t even notice the season changing.
You just wake up one Saturday and realise you’re excited to walk on the beach. You’re potting herbs. You’re making plans. You’re laughing more. You’re interested in your life again.
You can feel things again.
I don’t think finding yourself again happens in one big, dramatic moment.
For me, it happened through hundreds of tiny ones.
Moving my body. Nourishing myself. Resting. Getting stronger. Setting boundaries. Making my home feel good. Finding little things to look forward to.
And slowly, without really noticing it, I started becoming her.
Not the woman I was before.
The woman I was becoming next.
That’s what Becoming Her is about.
Not fixing yourself or chasing some perfect version of you.
Taking care of yourself through every season and trusting that no season lasts forever.
And when the sun comes back out, letting yourself feel every bit of it.
Becoming Her. Coming soon 🤍