The Loneliness Guy

The Loneliness Guy I'm on a mission to de-stigmatise gay loneliness and promote authentic connection for gay and queer men globally.

Words matter. Words are powerful. Words help us feel seen and heard. Words help us – all of us – feel connected. It’s ti...
12/10/2023

Words matter. Words are powerful.

Words help us feel seen and heard. Words help us – all of us – feel connected.

It’s time that the Australia’s first peoples – the custodians of this ancient land – are recognised in Australia’s constitution and are given a voice in how decisions affecting them are made.

I’ll be voting yes in this weekend’s referendum.

If you don’t know, please take time today to inform yourself of what we’re really being asked.



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Quick check-in: are you using social media or is it using you right now? This app is an awesome tool of connection when ...
08/10/2023

Quick check-in: are you using social media or is it using you right now?

This app is an awesome tool of connection when you use it mindfully. But it’s not good for us when we use it mindlessly.

So if you’re scrolling mindlessly, what’s one thing you could do right now to help you get the connection you’re looking for?

The connection you’re looking for and deserve isn’t found at the bottom of your feed.



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Connection: sometimes it feels like you can’t afford it, but you can’t afford to not have it. Are you connecting on cred...
05/10/2023

Connection: sometimes it feels like you can’t afford it, but you can’t afford to not have it.

Are you connecting on credit?

Dinners, movies, concerts, shopping, weekends away.

It feels like if you’ll miss out and no one will invite you if you’re not keeping up with everyone, right?

The irony is that doing connection on credit can often feed your loneliness.

Is it time to connect in ways that you can afford? What does that call you to do?



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It’s often weird initiating new connections. These new connections may not turn out to be your besties/your crew/your tr...
28/09/2023

It’s often weird initiating new connections. These new connections may not turn out to be your besties/your crew/your tribe/your people.

But they may well turn out to be all of these - and more.

You never know until you embrace the weirdness.

And spending time with other humans – with friends – who see YOU and hear YOU give you the sense of belonging that nourishes your soul.

And the great thing is when you are a place for other humans to feel seen and heard, they feel that they belong with you, too.

Soul-nourishing connection, all around. What a win!



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Yep, putting yourself out there to meet people and, perhaps, to make new friends is always weird. Remember: it’s weird a...
24/09/2023

Yep, putting yourself out there to meet people and, perhaps, to make new friends is always weird.

Remember: it’s weird and awkward for everyone.

In my experience, other humans are so grateful for someone to have initiated the contact and bid for connection that they’ll be so relieved to have met a lovely, genuine, caring and beautiful human like you.

Embrace the awkward and the weird feelings. Dive in.



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