The Family Room Psychology

19/10/2026

Different views on boundaries?

How much freedom is reasonable? Which rules matter? How do parents respond when they disagree?

Parenting a teenager can bring different expectations to the surface and strain relationships.

Dee Pakendorf offers couples counselling and family therapy at The Family Room in Cleveland. She helps parents explore recurring disagreements, communicate more constructively, and work toward a more consistent approach.

Parents can attend an initial session without their teenager.

Call 0493 021 065 to ask about an appointment with Dee.

12/10/2026

Is talking with your teenager getting harder?

As teenagers become more independent, parents can wonder when to step in, when to give space, and how to stay connected.

Dee Pakendorf supports teenagers and parents through these changing relationships at The Family Room in Cleveland.

Family therapy provides space to explore misunderstandings, discuss boundaries, and work toward better communication.

If you’re unsure where to begin, parents can attend an initial session without their teenager.

Call 0493 021 065 to ask about an appointment with Dee.

06/10/2026

The same argument with your teen, again?

Phones, chores, going out, schoolwork. Everyday conversations can become familiar disagreements that leave everyone frustrated.

Dee Pakendorf offers family therapy at The Family Room in Cleveland. Her approach helps families explore the patterns they get caught in, with space for different perspectives and without looking for someone to blame.

The focus is on working towards more constructive communication, clearer boundaries and connection.

Parents can attend an initial session without their teenager.

Call 0493 021 065 to ask about an appointment with Dee.

27/09/2026

Parents can start here.

Not sure how to support your teen — or yourself? Family therapy can start with a session just for you.

Dee Pakendorf is a Counsellor & Family Therapist at The Family Room in Cleveland, helping parents of teens work through conflict, communication and changing family dynamics. Your first session is a space to talk through what's going on and figure out a way forward — just for you.

Call 0493 021 065 to enquire or book. You can also message us on Facebook.

17/06/2026

18/12/2025

Our office will be closed on the 24th, 25th, 26th of December 2025 and the 1st of January 2026.

Our admin team will be taking some time off over the Christmas / New Year period, so I will be dusting off my amateur admin skills to fill in for the professionals.

Here is the current availability of our psychologists and counsellors:

Dee Pakendorf (Counsellor, Couples & Family Therapist)
Appointments available from Monday, 22nd of December 2025

Chad McCormick (Psychologist)
Appointments available from Saturday, 27th of December 2025.
(I have just opened the 27th, 29th and 30th of December 2025).

Jackie Batrachenko (Psychologist)
Appointments available from Tuesday, 13th of January 2026

Rachael Lovett (Psychologist)
Appointments available from Tuesday, 20th of January 2026

Kirsten Schmitt (Psychologist)
Appointments available from Thursday, 29th of January 2026
(Kirsten will start working an extra day, Mondays, beginning Monday, the 2nd of February 2026)

Kelly Worrell (Clinical Psychologist)
Appointments available from Friday, 13th of February 2026 (if you dare).

I hope you have a fun, safe, happy and stress-free Christmas. If you manage to do this, please tell me your secret. Merry Christmas!

Cheers, Chad.

09/11/2025

We are lucky to have Dee join our team. She works on Mondays, Thursday evenings, and one Saturday each month. Call or message us to book an appointment, or visit our website for more information about Dee.

20/06/2025

So many professionals are wondering why this is happening - and to what end? They read and write sooner - then what? Unfortunately it doesn’t make them smarter or more creative problem solvers. It doesn’t enhance social skills when we are pushing them to achieve curriculum standards before their neurological wiring is ready. It’s not teachers or schools making these changes and trying to push down formal education. It’s coming from the top - from people who are well meaning but don’t really understand how learning works. It needs to be fun. It needs to be engaging. It needs to be play based. Because we learn when we are having fun; feel safe and when we can try all sorts of ways of doing things without worrying we are going to get things wrong and be marked on it. Let’s follow Finland! They know what they’re doing. No wonder our kids are more stressed than ever and school “can’t” is on the rise. God bless our teachers and schools that have the enormous task of needing to do what they are mandated to do whilst keeping our children’s mental health in tact.

As one of Australia’s leading parenting educators I regularly travel the length and breadth of this country including cities, remote communities, rural communities and of course the digital world. Everywhere ...

04/03/2025

How to help our children with disabilities feel as secure as possible during Cyclone Alfred. Stay safe everyone. You've got this. We are thinking of you all. ###

Natural disaster preparation is important for kids and teens with disability or other additional needs. Start by organising information and an emergency bag.

04/03/2025

A child friendly resource to help our children understand the impending weather event.

https://www.childrens.health.qld.gov.au/our-work/birdies-tree-natural-disaster-recovery/birdies-tree-storybooks/birdie-and-the-cyclone?fbclid=IwY2xjawI0TP9leHRuA2FlbQIxMAABHbR3D94gbO9hc6Tbwt4ajeD0kolJJqlQIWdLBg31pbTBG01b6WPmyaPesA_aem_Tab14TqnYRU5-89n4po-kg

Storybooks, videos and resources to help young children and their families cope with cyclones.