11/04/2026
Breastfeeding is a whole body and mind experience.
Good lactation support is essential to not only continuing to breastfeed but to the protection of maternal mental health. ✅
No breastfeeding experience should ever feel “traumatic” 😔
New mums need from me, straight forward correct, common sense education & advice to leave them feeling reassured , cared for and not fearful or uncertain.
They need to be “held”, & they need TIME. Time with my mums is something I can prioritise now that I am out of the health system and practicing privately. 🙏
Establishing breastfeeding can sometimes feel like a race with a forever moving finish line. Slowing the journey down and supporting a mother’s recovery & mental health helps with feelings of overwhelm and helps to keep mums breastfeeding.
Realistic expectations are a must, feeling “heard” is a must, support and encouragement to recognise when more help with mental health is needed is a must.
Being comfortable and skilled enough to normalise when mental health needs help & not feel like it is the elephant in the room is essential to providing quality wholistic lactation and postpartum care 🙏
The mental health overlap into lactation is huge!
Many breastfeeding challenges I see stem from a place of maternal nervous system overwhelm, from a deep place of vulnerability, disempowerment, and conflicting information overload.
Sometimes I find new mothers are not ready to acknowledge when more help with mental health is needed to really help breastfeeding. Gently I urge, I support and advise, never pushing too hard & never with any judgement. Never do I need to send mothers who I know are struggling on a wild goose chase looking for answers when I know what they need.
In a world that feeds us fear it’s hard to find calm. My mission is to be the “calm” in my mums world during this vulnerable time.,The empowering force working against the overwhelm.
There is no shame in the fact that the majority of women find the mental toll really hard, when we are continually told breastfeeding is meant to be natural and easy. 💜
There IS shame in the gross lack of skilled expert breastfeeding support available to all mums out there 😔