05/09/2026
Unrealistic expectations really cause new parents a lot of stress, anxiety and grief 😕
Sure, I can provide many strategies to help parents to feed, settle and care for their baby.
However, my most valuable offering is my education to help them to understand WHO their tiny humanbeing really is!
Once you gain an understanding of why babies are behaving like they do, you can then work from a platform of knowledge which builds acceptance, confidence and resilience.
Once you appreciate the wide variances in what our society pitches as "normal" for all babies, you can stop worrying & searching to “fix" your baby. You can lean into the unpredictability a baby brings & stop feeling like you are doing something wrong.
Babies are constantly changing and how we respond to them has to keep changing with them.
Once your baby is a baby no more, they will continue to do things THEIR way and at their own pace, nothing much changes, just the achievements are different. 🤷♀️
Some will be sprinters and some will not have it in them to win a race.
Some will be talkers and some will be listeners.
Some won't be able to sit still for a single minute and some will take a lot to get going.
Some will have the ability to show great patience and some will not.
Some will be as stubborn as hell.
Some will be the most sensitive of souls.
Babies show their unique human
characteristics which go on to be strengths and/or weaknesses from a very early age. Temperament plays a huge role from birth and impacts on both breastfeeding & sleep
The challenge for new parents is being able to recognise the humaness in their tiny people.
To sit with them in uncomfortable spaces as they learn how to fit into this world, develop and grow (and not just physically)
Being able to do this is a lesson in resilience for ourselves!
Mothering or parenting does not always come easily or naturally.
Finding ways to nurture yourself while YOU, yourself are changing & growing and are immersed in this intense chapter of your life helps you to not only survive but thrive.
Surrendering to hard things, imperfection, sometimes ugly moments and being able to relinquish control with self compassion IS the reality of parenting!
You are doing an amazing job & the most important job you will ever be asked to do. 🙏❤️