14/10/2026
I made this post after reading an incredible short chapter written by YeshuaniX, who writes and speaks regularly on system collapse and integration of self-beliefs and self knowing. From her readings, what I began to realise is how we are affected on the macro, but related it back down to our more rudimentary interactions on the micro. When discussing systems, this is speaking to the conceptual systems and dynamics, rather than inherent and explicit ones. This may be a bit hard to grasp due to it being abstract.
We often become so panicked and destabilised at the slightest cue of change, that we do not tend to realise that life is constantly in motion. We may repeat the same patterns or follow a similar spiral, but it will always be different (even if in only the slightest manner). Change is the sign of life, whereas a permenant stop would be the indication of death. Perhaps that is why so many of us become so anxious when we are in liminal phases, or even when things feel stagnant. However, the realistic nature of it all, is that we are constantly in motion and change.
Our ability to remain coherent within ourselves, and trust in our capacity to move through change without intervention directly is largely associated with how we experience the outcome of change. If we know ourselves and trust in ourselves, change can be hard and difficult, absolutely; though, it cannot shake us entirely if there is undeniable trust in our capacity to withstand or adapt, or tolerate it so.
This applies relationally especially, where our partners and our partnership as a whole are constantly in flux.
