16/06/2026
❤️ THE EMOTIONAL HEART
Can you really die from a broken heart?
Before we get to that, I have a confession. As a teenager, I was completely and utterly in love with David Cassidy.
Not a little crush or passing fancy. I was convinced he was singing directly to me through the television. That may be an indicator of the unloved feeling I had as a child. I do admire my own determination to fill the space and eventually I learnt (still learning) to fill that space healthfully.
I knew every song, watched every episode, and somewhere in my imagination, there was a vacant seat waiting for me on the Partridge Family bus. The school bus that picked me up each morning wasn't really taking me to school. It was simply the portal to my future life as an honorary member of the Partridge Family.
Teenage logic is a beautiful thing.
Of course, reality eventually arrived. While my imagined romance with David Cassidy didn't work out, my first real heartbreak was much harder to navigate.
I remember feeling as though my heart was physically breaking. My chest hurt, food lost its appeal, sleep became difficult. There was an empty, gut-wrenching feeling behind and below my sternum that literally made breathing and existing almost impossible. I genuinely wondered whether people could die from a broken heart.
As it turns out, there is actually science behind why heartbreak feels so physical. Our emotional and physical pain systems share some of the same neurological pathways. The body doesn't simply separate emotional pain from physical pain as neatly as we might think.
The heart and the brain are in constant conversation. We are going to be exploring the Emotional Heart. The heartbreaks, grief, connections, losses, and the resilience. Perhaps most importantly, how the heart continues to heal and love again.
Yes, in rare cases, people can become seriously ill from what is often called "broken heart syndrome" (Takotsubo cardiomyopathy), a temporary condition where intense emotional stress can affect the heart muscle. While it can be serious, most people recover with appropriate medical care.
I didn't die from a broken heart, and thankfully most of us don't. What heartbreak does remind us is that emotional pain is real, and healing matters. Sometimes we can do that on our own, and sometimes we need support from family, friends, or professionals to help us heal in healthy ways. The heart is remarkably resilient, and given time, care, and connection, it can mend and love again. ❤️
Who was your first celebrity crush?
And be honest, did you ever imagine they were secretly in love with you too? 😄❤️