05/06/2026
Strong, Capable, Confident—and Not Defined by a Scale!
When Did We Decide Women Should Always Be Shrinking?
Part 2:
The fitness industry and mainstream media have spent decades encouraging women to believe that their bodies are projects that constantly need fixing. That they should take up less space, weigh less, eat less, and somehow become “better” by becoming smaller.
But that’s a pretty uninspiring use of an incredible human body.
I challenge you to reject the idea that your primary goal should always be controlling your weight, and that exercise exists solely to burn calories and earn your dinner.
Your body is capable of so much more than acting as a calorie-burning machine.
Strength training can help you carry groceries without performing an interpretive dance in the car park. It can help you keep up with your kids, feel more confident, move better, age well, and build resilience for life beyond the gym.
Most importantly, it allows you to experience the satisfaction of becoming stronger, more capable, and more confident in your own skin.
When you embrace training as a tool for becoming the strongest version of yourself—not the smallest version of yourself—you may discover that what you gain is far more valuable than anything you lose.
And that’s a goal worth pursuing.