04/09/2026
What if it’s less about whether we change ourselves… and more about what place within us we are choosing from?”✨✨✨✨
I miss my dark hair sometimes.🥹
But this little hair chapter has shown me something bigger.
There is so much freedom when we stop resisting ourselves.
In noticing the judgement.
Feeling the old pull.
Hearing the thought that says maybe you should look like you did before…
and not automatically handing your power over to it.🙌🏻
That is the work for me.
Not never having the thought.
Not loving every change.
Not pretending we are above any of it.
Just becoming more aware of what we are choosing from.
Fear.
Judgement.
Old conditioning.
Or something lighter.
More open.
More expansive.
More true.
More alive.
We can change the hair.
Change the body.
Change the plan.
Pimp ourselves however we like.💃
But there is something powerful about knowing we are doing it because it feels good to us… not because we are trying to escape who we are now.👸
That shift changes everything.
That’s what LighterLiving has always been about for me, and why I show up here like I do.🔆
So I’m curious… where in your life are you learning to choose from a lighter place?
-you-ness