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Spread Your Wings Spread Your Wings supports women ready to reclaim identity and rise beyond survival mode.

Through transformation coaching and intentional community, we lead you through metamorphosis. 🦋

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⚠️IMPORTANT ANNOUNCEMENT⚠️You might’ve noticed I’ve gone a bit quiet. 🫶🏼Here’s why: an almost-8-month-old who needs me f...
06/08/2026

⚠️IMPORTANT ANNOUNCEMENT⚠️
You might’ve noticed I’ve gone a bit quiet. 🫶🏼

Here’s why: an almost-8-month-old who needs me for everything and isn’t shy about it. Two neurodivergent kids. My own health — including a recent hospital stay for a “hormonal imbalance” that made it very clear I’d stopped putting myself anywhere near the priority list.

It got me thinking about quitting. Not in the failure sense — in the letting-go sense. Letting go of what isn’t serving what matters most right now.

And what matters most right now isn’t fighting a system that was never built to bend easily. Support coordination asked me to keep showing up for a process that often felt slower and harder than the people it’s meant to help — and I gave everything I had to make that work, for as long as I could. But somewhere in trying to hold that up while also holding my family together, I lost sight of what I actually had left to give. Some days the only window I get is nap time — and even then it’s a toss-up between a shower, eating lunch, or answering emails. Fighting myself over which one wins, every single day. Rushing to get a bit of work done while baby’s happy, watching the clock until it isn’t. That’s not it. That’s not sustainable, and it’s not the way I want to keep showing up — for my family, or for the people I support.

It’s my health. My family. One very clingy baby who has zero interest in sharing me with anyone else.

So I’ve made the call to close support coordination as part of Spread Your Wings. Every client has already been personally notified — my last day is September 1st.

It’s okay to quit the things that are costing you more than they’re giving back. Even when those things matter. Even when you’re good at them.

This isn’t the end of what I’m building though. What’s coming next is about supporting women with disabilities in a way that doesn’t ask me to run on empty to do it — more intentional, more sustainable, and honestly, better. I’ll share more when it’s ready. 😉

Thanks for your patience while I’ve been quiet. I needed it.

✨ You don’t have to do this life alone.There’s something sacred about walking beside women who truly see you, who hold s...
07/07/2026

✨ You don’t have to do this life alone.

There’s something sacred about walking beside women who truly see you, who hold space without judgment, who remind you of your worth when you forget, who say, “me too” when the world feels heavy.

This is the kind of connection we will cultivate in Metamorphosis.

Reach out if you would like to learn more.

I think so many carers and parents hear "you're burnt out" and somewhere deep down translate it to "you're failing."Like...
06/07/2026

I think so many carers and parents hear "you're burnt out" and somewhere deep down translate it to "you're failing."

Like exhaustion is a character flaw.

Like if you just loved your person a little more, you'd find a way to keep going.

Like rest is something you have to earn first.

But depletion isn't weakness.

It's what happens when a human being gives more than they have, for longer than anyone should, without enough in their corner.

Your body isn't broken.

It's been doing the impossible and asking for relief.

That difference matters.

🌿 What's one thing your body has been trying to tell you lately that you haven't had the space to listen to?

Not every big feeling needs to be fixed.Some just need to be felt.When your nervous system is overwhelmed, your mind mig...
05/07/2026

Not every big feeling needs to be fixed.

Some just need to be felt.

When your nervous system is overwhelmed, your mind might rush to make sense of it, to analyse, label, or control.

But your body speaks in sensations, not sentences.

Sometimes the most healing thing you can do is pause, breathe, and remind yourself:

“This feeling is safe to move through me.”

It’s not weakness.
It’s wisdom.

📸 Featuring the beautiful Crystal'lee Starsanski Beinala

Just like the butterfly evolves from the caterpillar, transformation is possible for all of us.Even in the moments we fe...
29/06/2026

Just like the butterfly evolves from the caterpillar, transformation is possible for all of us.

Even in the moments we feel the most stuck.
Even when we can't see the way through.
Even when we're exhausted from trying.
Even when we've forgotten who we are.

That's exactly why I created Metamorphosis.

A six week program for the woman who is ready to stop surviving and start coming back to herself.

We explore identity, nervous system regulation, boundaries, support systems and purpose.

Not to fix you.

But to give you the space, the tools, and the permission to reconnect to who you've always been.

Launching in August 2026 - I hope you will join us.

Book your clarity call today at https://f.mtr.cool/gnmgulcmpw to learn more. 🧡

I want you to sit with that for a moment.Because so many of us are carrying the weight of who we used to be.The choices ...
28/06/2026

I want you to sit with that for a moment.

Because so many of us are carrying the weight of who we used to be.

The choices we made when we were just trying to survive.

The version of ourselves we're not proud of.

The patterns we keep falling back into.

And we use all of it as evidence that we can't change.

But that's not the truth.

The fact that you're here, reading this, wanting something different.

That's the awareness.

And that awareness?

That's where everything begins.

You get to choose again today.

Even if yesterday was hard.

Even if last week was hard.

Even if the last few years were hard.

You are not your history. 🧡

When I built Metamorphosis, I didn't just draw from a textbook.I drew from my own life.From the years of navigating burn...
27/06/2026

When I built Metamorphosis, I didn't just draw from a textbook.
I drew from my own life.

From the years of navigating burnout, overwhelm, and a nervous system that never felt safe enough to slow down.

From my diagnosis. From motherhood. From surviving seasons I didn't think I'd get through.

And from the training and tools that helped me find my way back to myself.

I'm a qualified mindset coach and NLP practitioner.
I'm trained in hypnotherapy.
I'm a support coordinator who has walked alongside women and families through some of their hardest moments.

And I'm a woman with lived experience of everything I teach.

That combination?

That's what makes this work different.

Inside Metamorphosis we don't just talk about change.

We use practical, evidence-informed tools to uncover the subconscious patterns, beliefs and behaviours keeping you stuck.

And we do it with compassion, honesty and genuine connection at the centre of it all.

Because I know what it feels like to need someone who actually understands.
And that's exactly who I built this for.

I would love it if you joined us. Your community is waiting.

Book your clarity call at https://f.mtr.cool/gpdqxtaeev

Today I sat in my car and cried.Like, ugly cried. The kind you haven't done since you were a teenager and thought the wo...
22/06/2026

Today I sat in my car and cried.

Like, ugly cried. The kind you haven't done since you were a teenager and thought the world was ending.

It was just a hard morning.

I was up all night with a sick little one. Then slept in. Rushed to get the others off to school - but not before I raised my voice one too many times. Dropped them off and rushed back home to take care of a sick little bubba.

But before I could go in,
I needed to sit in my car and cry.

Sometimes life can be a lot. Sometimes motherhood can be a lot. Sometimes marriage can be a lot. Sometimes running a business can be a lot.

And sometimes?

Sometimes it just feels like a lot, all at once.

I try to push through.

And sometimes I can.

But other times what I'm carrying just feels really heavy. So heavy that I wonder if people can physically see my knees buckling under the weight.

And can I share something with you?

I hate admitting when I'm struggling.

I hate saying out loud that I'm in a tough season.

Maybe I worry about the woman whose kids are grown, who'll tell me she used to do it all. Maybe I feel bad for the woman carrying grief, who would give anything to have her child still here. Maybe I'm scared of being seen as someone who can't hold it together.

So I'm writing this instead.

For the women like me who need to read it.

You are not a failure for being frustrated, exhausted, or completely depleted by life.

You are not alone in the mess.

And somewhere out there is another woman raising her cold cuppa at you going - I've been there too.

Because sometimes you'll find yourself sitting in your driveway, in last night's pj's, crying in the car.

And you just need to know you're not the only one having a rough day.
Not every day is a rough day.

But today was.
And that's okay.

Tomorrow I'll try again. 🧡

This morning I almost talked myself out of showing up.I was in the shower - little man in the high chair watching me was...
21/06/2026

This morning I almost talked myself out of showing up.

I was in the shower - little man in the high chair watching me wash my hair, I was already running late to my meeting.

And my brain went straight to it.

"You're gonna be late anyway. What's the point? Just don't go."

I nearly did it. I nearly cancelled.

But I messaged ahead, asked them to grab me a chai latte, and I showed up anyway.
And I'm so glad I did.

Because here's what I know about those thoughts - the ones that tell us what's the point, I'm not ready, I should be doing this differently, everyone else has it together.

Most of the time they're not true.

But when we sit with them and let them take over, we miss the opportunity.

To learn. To grow. To find that one bit of information that shifts something.

I'm in a slow season right now. Business is quiet. I'm in my postpartum time and I'm allowing myself to be slow.

And even in that - I still have to fight those thoughts.

So this carousel is for every woman who has talked herself out of something this week before she even tried.

Save this for the next time your brain tries to talk you out of showing up.

Tamika🧡

I know what it feels like to want to do the work and then life happens.The kids. The mental load. The exhaustion of just...
20/06/2026

I know what it feels like to want to do the work and then life happens.

The kids. The mental load. The exhaustion of just getting through the day.

Then another thing gets pushed to the bottom of the list.

Metamorphosis was built with that reality in mind.

It's self-paced. You're not doing it alone and it's not about what I think you need to change - it's about what you want to change.

Each week builds on the next with practical tools and reflection so you're always moving forward.

Not another thing sitting on your to-do list.

Women leave with more clarity, confidence, and self-worth.

And at the heart of it - this is about giving you permission to come back to yourself.

Launching August 2026.

Ready to find out if Metamorphosis is your next step?

Book your clarity call at
https://f.mtr.cool/tdertfbndp

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