Energetically Inspired with Kelli J Hurley

Energetically Inspired with Kelli J Hurley Kelli offers a range of healing modalities, while adding in intuitive and transformational coaching Kelli Hurley is the founder of Energetically Inspired.

It was through Kelli's own journey of Healing that she became a Energy Healer, helping others heal from a multitude of aliments, such as releasing mind chatter, emotional blocks, to heal triggered reactions and reoccurring patterns-wounded behaviours, plus stress. It was then that I discovered a strong calling to help guide and teach others how to heal from similar issues. Her healing led to her o

wn transformation. As she connected back to her own true essence, reclaiming her magic, medicine and power, she was able to then offer her soul aligned purpose to the world. Kelli is passionate about helping people to reconnect with their true essence, to evolve and heal so they can live a happy and joyful life aligned to their heart’s and soul’s desires, empowering them to deliver their unique magic and medicine to the world. She offers this through a variety of programs including “The Art of Being a Healer Is in the Act of Healing Yourself”, designed around healing oneself or becoming a healer, and “Immerse Into Yourself”, which helps people to come home to their true self. But also does this through 1 on 1 healing and mentoring, which is tailored to the individual needs. She also offers services, like Group Distance Healing sessions, Oracle readings and more. She is also a International Best-selling Author. She has over 10 years experience in Energy Healing, is a Reiki Master and is a Certified Diamond Light Activation Healer, Theta Healer, Body Attunement. Numerology, Life Coaching, Vibrational Medicine, Diet and Nutrition, Numerology, Animal Communications, Age Regression and also offers Channeled Oracle Readings and Bio Resonance Scans. Kelli is currently a single mother of two young boys living on the Gold Coast in Australia. This page offers a range of inspiring posts, pictures, affirmations, as well as Energetic/Spiritual based subjects like Energy Healing, Reiki, Numerology, Crystals and Life Coaching - delivering transformational tools, tips, services and wisdom.

THE ABANDONMENT WOUND CAN HAVE YOU WORKING SO HARD TO KEEP SOMEONE THAT YOU DON’T NOTICE HOW LITTLE THEY’RE ACTUALLY GIV...
09/09/2026

THE ABANDONMENT WOUND CAN HAVE YOU WORKING SO HARD TO KEEP SOMEONE THAT YOU DON’T NOTICE HOW LITTLE THEY’RE ACTUALLY GIVING YOU.

You become focused on their needs, their feelings, their circumstances. Why they’re busy. Why they’re struggling. Why they can’t show up right now. You understand, accommodate, give more, wait longer and tell yourself you’re just being compassionate.

Meanwhile, your own needs and desires keep moving further down the list.

This is what can happen with anxious attachment. When you feel someone pulling away or becoming inconsistent, instead of observing what they’re showing you, you do MORE. You initiate more, give more, become more understanding and accept the breadcrumbs because at least the connection is still there.

Without realising it, you’re setting the standard for what you’ll tolerate. When you continually compensate for someone’s lack of effort, they never have to rise to meet you. You end up carrying the connection while telling yourself you’re just loving deeply.

Then comes the second-guessing. “Maybe I’m expecting too much.” “They’ve got a lot going on.” “Maybe I need to give them more time.” “But I know who they really are. I can see so much potential in them.”

Seeing someone’s potential isn’t the problem. The problem is when you start relating to their potential instead of their reality.

You can see everything someone COULD become while still paying attention to who they are consistently showing you they ARE.

Do they initiate? Are they consistent? Do they make space for your needs? Do their actions match their words? Are they actually building something WITH you?

Because the abandonment wound can become so focused on keeping the connection that you stop trusting your own inner compass.

You noticed the inconsistency. You felt the lack of effort. You knew something wasn’t meeting your needs, and then you talked yourself out of what you knew.

Healing anxious attachment is also about learning to trust yourself again.

Your needs matter. Your standards matter. You don’t have to over-give to earn reciprocity, and you don’t have to continually accept less because you’re afraid that asking for more might mean losing them.

The question shifts from “How do I keep this connection?” to “Is this person actually meeting me in the kind of relationship I desire?”

Because when you stop choosing someone’s potential over their reality, you can finally start choosing from your own worth.

This is a huge part of Attraction Recoding: understanding the patterns underneath attraction, rebuilding your inner compass and learning how to love deeply without continually putting yourself last.

Comment RECODE or DM me RECODE if you’re ready to change the pattern. ❤️

WHAT IF SOME OF THE THINGS YOU THINK ARE JUST “WHO YOU ARE” ARE ACTUALLY HOW YOU LEARNED TO PROTECT YOURSELF IN LOVE?You...
07/09/2026

WHAT IF SOME OF THE THINGS YOU THINK ARE JUST “WHO YOU ARE” ARE ACTUALLY HOW YOU LEARNED TO PROTECT YOURSELF IN LOVE?

You’re naturally loving, so you give more. You’re compassionate, so you understand their behaviour. You’re loyal, so you stay and try to work through things. You’re independent, so you convince yourself you don’t need much from anyone.

None of those qualities are bad. In fact, they can be some of the most beautiful parts of you.

But what happens when you’re giving because you’re afraid they’ll leave? When “understanding” becomes making excuses for behaviour that hurts you? When being easygoing means swallowing your needs because you’re afraid of being too much?

What happens when someone pulls away and instead of asking whether THEY are meeting YOU, you love harder, give more, become more accommodating and try to prove why the relationship is worth fighting for?

Sometimes protection becomes so familiar, we mistake it for personality.

This is what I call the ARMED EGO. Not ego as something bad or something we need to destroy, but the protective parts of us that learned how to survive rejection, abandonment, inconsistency, criticism or not feeling chosen.

When we don’t know those parts of ourselves, they can unconsciously run our relationships.

You chase when someone withdraws. Over-give when you sense distance. Accept breadcrumbs because losing the connection feels worse. Silence a boundary because expressing it feels dangerous. You might even become hyper-independent because somewhere along the way, needing another person stopped feeling safe.

The deeper work isn’t becoming less loving, giving, sensitive or independent.

It’s learning when those beautiful qualities are coming from your authentic self and when they’re being driven by a wound.

There is a difference between giving because it feels good to give and giving because you need to be chosen.

There is a difference between compassion and self-abandonment.

There is a difference between independence and being terrified to need anyone.

There is a difference between loving deeply and losing yourself inside another person.

This is why knowing yourself deeply matters. Your shadows, your wounds, your rejected parts, your needs, your triggers and what happens inside your nervous system when something feels unsafe.

Because being integrated doesn’t mean you’ll never be triggered. It means you can recognise when you are and ask, “What is happening inside me right now, and what do I actually need?”

You learn to have your own fu***ng back.

You can love deeply without over-giving. Be compassionate without tolerating behaviour that hurts you. Be vulnerable and still have boundaries. Desire someone without chasing them. Receive love without feeling like you have to earn it.

That’s the deeper work inside Attraction Recoding.

We’re not trying to turn you into someone more worthy of being chosen. We’re uncovering and recoding the patterns that taught you that you had to abandon parts of yourself to be loved.

Because the goal isn’t to become less of who you are. It’s to become more of who you are when you’re no longer living in protection.

Comment RECODE or DM me RECODE if you’re ready to go deeper. ❤️

WHY CAN THE PERSON WHO HURT YOU BECOME THE PERSON YOU FIND THE HARDEST TO LET GO OF?It often doesn’t start painfully. Th...
06/09/2026

WHY CAN THE PERSON WHO HURT YOU BECOME THE PERSON YOU FIND THE HARDEST TO LET GO OF?

It often doesn’t start painfully. That’s the fu***ng problem.

It starts with connection. Chemistry. Attention. Long conversations. Intimacy. Feeling wanted, chosen, understood. Maybe they show up in a way you haven’t experienced for a long time and you think, “F**k, this feels different.”

Then something shifts.

They pull back. Communication changes. They’re intensely present and then distant. What they say and what they do stop matching. You don’t quite know where you stand anymore.

And now you’re not just experiencing the connection. You’re trying to get back to the connection you had at the beginning.

So you start overthinking. Checking your phone. Reading into messages. Trying to work out what changed. When they’re close again, you feel relief. When they pull away, you’re activated all over again.

The beautiful moments become evidence of what you KNOW is possible between you, so you hold on through the moments that hurt.

You tell yourself, “But I know who they are underneath this.” “I know how good we can be.” “Maybe they’re just scared.” “Maybe they need time.”

And without even realising it, you can become more attached to trying to get the relationship BACK than asking whether the relationship you’re actually experiencing is healthy for you.

THIS is where a connection can expose something much deeper.

Maybe inconsistency makes you chase instead of step back. Maybe being chosen feels like proof of your worth. Maybe you over-give when you sense someone withdrawing. Maybe chemistry overrides your standards. Maybe you’re holding onto someone’s potential while abandoning yourself in their reality.

Call it a karmic connection, trauma bonding, a soul contract or simply an old relational pattern being activated. The label isn’t nearly as important as recognising what the relationship is bringing to the surface in YOU.

Because sometimes we become obsessed with understanding them. Why did they change? Do they love me? Will they come back? Was any of it real?

When the more powerful question is:

“Why did their inconsistency make me abandon myself instead of making me question whether THEY were right for me?”

That’s where the work is.

Not in pretending the connection wasn’t real. It may have been incredibly real.

Not in convincing yourself they were a terrible person.

But in recognising that a powerful connection and a healthy relationship are not automatically the same thing.

Sometimes the person you struggle hardest to let go of isn’t necessarily the person you’re meant to fight harder to keep.

Sometimes they’re the person who brings a pattern to the surface so clearly that you finally get to change it.

And that’s exactly what we go deeper into inside Attraction Recoding: understanding why certain dynamics activate such powerful attraction, what keeps you attached, and how to stop abandoning yourself inside connection.

Comment RECODE or DM me RECODE if you’re ready to understand the pattern instead of repeating it. ❤️

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