31/07/2026
Sometimes the hardest part isn’t doing the thing. ✨
It’s beginning again.
A few months ago I enrolled in a counselling course because it genuinely lit something up inside me. Then life happened. Family happened. Burnout happened.
I missed one study session.
Then another.
Eventually I stopped opening the app altogether.
For a while, I wondered if maybe it just wasn’t for me anymore.
So instead of forcing myself back into it, I asked a gentler question:
“Do I still want this?”
The answer was yes.
Not because I should finish it.
Because I genuinely want to learn. I want to grow. I want to become a counsellor one day.
So rather than trying to leap straight back into hours of study, I’ve been rebuilding the habit in tiny, almost laughably small steps.
✨ First, I put my iPad somewhere I could see it.
✨ Then I started taking it with me when I left the house.
✨ Now it’s charged and waiting in my lounge room.
✨ Next, I’ll take it to my favourite café (not to study, but simply to open the app and reconnect with it.)
That’s enough.
Sometimes nervous system regulation doesn’t look like pushing harder.
Sometimes it looks like making the next step so gentle that your body is willing to take it.
If you’ve been feeling stuck lately, maybe you don’t need a giant leap.
Maybe you just need your version of “put the iPad where you can see it.” 🤍