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Ruined Motivation Ruined Motivation - Motivational Video's and Statements to push you to become a better man within yourself - Ruined Motivation is designed for men by men!

If you think your Ruined... Think again..

17/08/2025

Delete conversations that hurt you whenever you read them. Delete phone numbers, Block contacts, Restrict, Mute, Unfollow. Remove every negative energy from your life. Do whatever it is that you need to do in order to heal and create a positive environment for yourself. Be open but don't be loose. Stay away from anyone who is always bringing out the pains and the past you’re trying to heal from. You may not have control over who walks into your life, but you must be in control of where they stay and how long they stay. Never put a temporary person in a permanent position of your life .

Remember.......

Anything or anyone that's costing you peace of mind, peaceful night rest, happiness, emotional and mental pain and self respect is too expensive. CUT IT OFF....

17/08/2025

I’ve come to realize that sometimes, no matter how much time passes, a part of us will always stay connected to someone we’ve truly loved. And that’s not weakness—it’s proof of the depth of our heart. 💙

You see, love isn’t always about moving on or letting go. Sometimes it’s about acknowledging that the experience shaped us. The first time you love unconditionally, you open parts of yourself you didn’t even know existed. That kind of love stays with you—it teaches, it tests, and yes, it hurts. But it also shows you what your heart is capable of.

I may never stop loving, and that’s okay. Because love is never wasted. Every tear, every smile, every moment of joy and pain—it all adds to the person I am becoming. Stronger. Wiser. More resilient.

So if you’re holding onto someone in your heart, don’t see it as being stuck. See it as carrying forward the lessons, the strength, and the proof that you can love fully and fearlessly. That is something to be proud of. ✨

26/02/2025

A woman NEVER LEAVES without already having another man lined up. If she leaves you, there was already a replacement waiting, and she was prepared for him.

Don't be fooled. When a woman leaves your side, it's not because she "wants to be alone." It's because she already has another door open—along with her heart and sometimes more...

Men believe that women end things first and then search for someone new, but the reality is quite the opposite:

1. First, they find, then they finish.

2. First, they secure, then they let go.

3. First, they plan, then they execute.

✋ It hurts to accept, but if she left you, chances are someone else was already on her radar.

This is how the harsh reality works, gentlemen:

1️⃣ Emotional distancing – She stops arguing, stops demanding, stops caring. Mentally, she’s already out of the relationship.

2️⃣ Exploring options – She might not be with someone else yet, but she’s surveying the market. She won’t stay alone for long.

3️⃣ Closing the next deal – It could be an ex, a long-time friend, or a new admirer who knew exactly what to say at the right moment.

4️⃣ Walking away without looking back – No second chances, no "let’s try again." By the time you realize what's happening, she’s already with someone new, while you’re still trying to process it.

Here's the truth they don’t tell you:

👉 If a woman leaves you, it’s because she already has someone else supporting her.
👉 If she says she "needs time," she’s already investing her time elsewhere.
👉 If she swears she’s alone after the breakup, she just doesn’t want you to know who she’s with.

The problem is, men think this is just "bad luck," but in reality, it’s ignorance. Women don’t play randomly—they play chess. And while you were confident that "everything was fine," she was already making her next move.

Don't be naive. If you notice her pulling away, be prepared.

Because the next thing you’ll hear is: "I need space."

✅ If you think she’ll come back, wake up—she’s already given her heart to someone else!

And it’s the same for men who leave their wife! You have someone else too! If you both didn’t then the relationship wouldn’t break down!

05/02/2025

Good s*x is a soul food...stop being over spiritual about it...raise those legs high, lay down flat and raise that ass with pillow for some good digging 🍆😋😋oh yeah ..Above all moan and scream it all out then cm like a queen that you are 🥂🍾💃🏼*

I’ll just leave this here!
09/11/2023

I’ll just leave this here!

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24/10/2023

What do you want in life? Comment below.

Yup you are someone’s story!
19/10/2023

Yup you are someone’s story!

Listen!
19/10/2023

Listen!

19/10/2023

Marry a man who wants to be a husband, not a man who just wants a wife.

Take a risk!
18/10/2023

Take a risk!

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