26/07/2026
I GET ASKED THIS MULTIPLE TIMES A WEEK
This is what I sayâŚ
I donât have a problem with them, and quite frankly, when parents are informed of risks and benefits, they should be supported to do what works best for their family.
Some babies have a really strong need to suck, and for those babies a dummy can be a fantastic tool. It can help with settling and soothing, and thereâs good evidence that using a dummy during sleep is associated with a reduced risk of SIDS.
My biggest advice? Feed first. Dummy second.
Especially in the early weeks, always make sure your baby has been offered a feed, is feeding well, gaining weight appropriately, has good wet and dirty nappy output, and your milk supply is well established before using a dummy to settle them.
A dummy should never replace a feed or be used to delay feeds. Babies suck for both nutrition and comfort, and both are important. Missing feeding cues can affect weight gain and milk supply.
There are a few things to keep in mind:
⢠Introducing a dummy before breastfeeding is established may contribute to breastfeeding challenges for some babies.
⢠Long-term dummy use (particularly beyond 2â4 years) can affect dental development and palate shape.
⢠Keep dummies clean, replace them if they become worn, and never dip them in honey or other sweet substances.
For me, a dummy is a tool. Used at the right time, for the right reasons, it can be incredibly helpful for some babies and families.
As always this is general advice and always talk to your healthcare provider for individualised advice for you and your baby.
What were you told about dummies?
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