23/06/2026
Death Doula : Clarence and Coffs in person
Hi... I just want to talk a little about my work as a Death doula, what's entailed, and how it can help the terminally ill and their families.
Firstly, I am not a nurse and not yet qualified to take on the role of a funeral director ... my role is one of support mostly.
I can help ease the pain that can often be associated with those last days, weeks or months.
I can help elderly clients with memory issues.
Even though this is rarely a permanent thing because of aged mental deterioration, it still helps because many elderly start "remembering" pain or events from way back in their life. They may only be able to tell those around them that "their leg hurts" but to those others, there is nothing wrong.
I can help locate the past cause for this mysterious pain. This gives the client some relief, and allows family and nursing staff to understand where the pain signal came from. Unfortunately our brain can crosswire close to death, and memories surface that we cant control. This is where I can help.
I can also offer help with reiki to ease pain and allow for better levels of relaxation and ease.
Finally, I can answer those questions that people want to know when facing the end. Like ... what happens to us? Where do we go ? Is this all there is ? Will I see my loved ones again ? Etc
I spend time gently and personally answering questions of both the client, and their family. I offer support and understanding at a time that should be peaceful and calm, but quite often isn't, because of fear of the unknown.
How I Charge :
I dont commit clients or family to set contracts. I am available at any time of the day or night as a doula, and only charge by the hour ... my standard hourly rate.
I am available to go to private homes or nursing homes. Your loved ones location doesnt matter.
I Will Go To You :
If you have a loved one that is passing and you cant be there, and you know they will be alone, I am happy to step in and sit with them so they don't pass alone.
That brings me to the final point, and that is that if I am with this personal at the time they pass, I will sit with them for a time after and help guide their soul to cross over.
So this is my work as a Death Doula.
If you are in need of these services, or even just have an elderly family member in a nursing home that needs some tlc, please message me here, or on 0422 308 552 or I can be emailed on
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