21/08/2026
This research resonates deeply with what I observe in my work with children in primary school settings.
Most children are respectful and responsive, but I have become increasingly concerned by some of the attitudes and behaviours I occasionally see in young boys towards female teachers and other female education and support staff. When disrespect, hostility or a refusal to accept direction appears to be influenced by the fact that the adult giving the instruction is a woman, it is something we need to notice and take seriously.
What is particularly striking is that this research found teachers reporting students quoting influencers and using misogynistic language to justify refusing instructions from female staff while complying with identical instructions from male colleagues - with this behaviour reported among children as young as six.
This is not about blaming boys - or their families. Attitudes towards women are learned, and they can also be changed.
If we are serious about preventing violence against women, we cannot wait until boys are young men to begin the conversation. The attitudes that sit beneath gendered violence do not emerge from nowhere. They are shaped by the messages children receive about women, girls, gender, power, respect and whose authority matters.
Schools, families and communities all have an important role to play in helping children develop respect, empathy and healthy relationships. Prevention is not about telling boys they are the problem. It is about recognising that they deserve support to grow up in a world that values women and girls equally - and giving them opportunities to question harmful messages before those attitudes become more deeply embedded.
This research is a timely reminder that respectful relationships education and the prevention of gender-based violence must begin early.
“Engagement with ‘manosphere’ content, po*******hy and online dating showed the strongest links to misogynistic views,” Dr Meger, said.
https://www.unimelb.edu.au/newsroom/news/2026/august/young-people-more-likely-to-hold-hostile-attitudes-towards-women,-study-finds