16/05/2026
♡ Notice the difference ♡
The subtle differences, the small details, the baby steps forward in the right direction.
Your life may feel hard at times and seemingly full of obstacles, traumas, betrayals and fears.
You may feel isolated and alone.
It may feel like 2 steps forward and 3 steps backwards as you come up against continuous resistance and restraint.
You may have been used and abused, scapegoated and slandered during your lifetime especially when you chose to speak up, set healthy boundaries which rocked the boat a little.
Especially when you started to say NO to what no longer felt right for you anymore and especially when you started seeing your worth and putting yourself first for a change instead of being a selfless, over-giving, people pleasing, suppressed and an overly submissive being.
You may have subconsciously learnt that you have to be hyper independent, self reliant and that you cannot trust others to show up for you in any way. It's safer to soldier on alone without complaint and without asking for the help, love and support that may never come even when you are in relationships.
You may have learnt that love, respect and support from your partner, certain types of friends and family always comes with conditioned. You have to make them happy, please them, keep them calm and do as much as you can for them, always do as you are told, be easy going, always be accommodating for THEIR needs, wants and desires even at the sacrifice and detriment of your own. Never express uncomfortable emotions to them or point out where they may have hurt you or they will withdraw that love, support and apparent respect towards you- like a mat being ripped from under your feet.
This is self sacrificial energy by the way and emotional manipulation on their part.
You may have learnt to live with and be happy with the bare minimum.
You also may have subconsciously learnt that you cannot do it all alone. On one hand it feels safer to do it all alone so you don't have to rely on anyone and on the other hand you have been programmed in this Patriarchal society that you need a man in your life to protect you, provide and lead you if you are a woman whether that be a father, father figure, elder, male partner or a partner with alot of masculine energy within them. We have been taught and programmed that we need a man in our lives for survival and support.
And men have been programmed to believe that they need a woman in their life to provide them with love, nurture, emotional support/regulation, care and unconditional support whether that be a mother, mother figure, female partner or elder.
So if on one hand it feels safer to be alone but on the other hand we are taught that it's not safe to be alone and we cannot do it all alone even if we are surrounded by emotionally unsafe people then we become stuck, feel confused, remain stuck in fear paralysis, feel disoriented even.
Also when we remain so co-dependent on others to have our needs met then we turn a blind eye to red flags and often allow abuse for the sake of 'survival.'
The last 7 year cycle has definitely been a struggle for many lightworkers and empathic beings. You may have felt helpless, hopeless and scared at times full of restrictions and restraint. You may feel stuck and exhausted. But I am here to tell you to give yourself some more credit and sensitivity towards what you have been through. Because despite all the trauma and toxic relationships you have had to wade through! Every morning you wake up and soldier on. You have fought and survived ALL the battles that were meant to kill you. But they didn't! You are still here.
Pull those shoulders back and feel proud of yourself. And many of those battles you went through- you survived alone. Somewhere in the depths of despair you dug deep within yourself and you pulled out just what you needed to get through it, to endure it, to survive it, to find a solution. You found it.
Every morning you woke up and despite the struggle you continued on, walking through your day with a smile on your face, gratitude and hope in your heart and still remaining positive and optimistic that things will change, things will get better- seeing the silverlining in every situation, seeing the opportunity for growth, for healing and gaining wisdom as you face and dissect every trigger. Slowly but surely peeling back the layers and healing from within.
Not everyone has that ability. But despite your traumas you are blessed with the gifts of healing. You have gone on the quest for knowledge, you have read the self- help books, you follow the inspiring social media accounts or podcasts, you have done and continue to do the workshops so you can continue to heal yourself from the inside out. You say the positive affirmations you do the little manifestation or self love rituals because you finally know your worth.
After a lifetime of feeling and being small, unseen and feeling utterly worthless- layer by layer you have healed. You have been igniting that internal spark from within your heart. The more you pour into yourself the brighter that spark grows until you start to feel and embody that warmth- that self love growing and expanding. You start to look at what your needs, wants and desires are. 'What do I want?' 'What am I interested in?' 'What are my passions?' 'What sets my heart and soul on fire?' 'What lights me up? What feeds my soul?' Because you finally have learnt that you matter too. You are important too. You are here on this Earth for a reason and you are deserving of all the love, support and an abundance of wealth that is Divinely Destined and Fated for you.
This is a reminder that even if you feel stuck and disheartened by your lack of direction and progress right now- it's a time to pause and look deeply within yourself. Look at what you have survived, look at how many internal blockages you have already cleared, look at all the knowledge you have gained, look at how much healing and self work you have done. Look at how strong your boundaries are now! Look at the growth in your confidence and how you have been practising to speak up where previously you wouldn't and where you have finally said no to people and behaviours that are disrespectful towards you. Look at how many relationships you have turned your back on when previously you would have stayed, tolerated abuse and disrespect out of the fear of being alone.
And yes it feels lonely and hard at times doing it all alone but feel that peace? Feel your nervous system relax, feel the inner child healing happening as you break those generational curses and give your own children all the unconditional love, unconditional support, unconditional respect and unconditional expression of love and nurture that you may have never really received. You give them a voice and the right to say NO to what doesn't feel right for them and you allow them to express ALL of their emotions and guide them towards healthy expression. You are bit by bit breaking the cycles that do not serve anyone except the Patriarchal leaders.
You have realised that even if you no longer have a Mother or Father in your life or safe parents you have an Inner Father and an Inner Mother and you can go back to any memory at anytime and rewrite and re-parent. The mind is a powerful tool. You have learnt that subconscious programs are only present to keep us safe and alive and were created in our early childhood. When those programs are no longer serving us and are instead keeping us stuck we actually have the power to change them with affirmation work, Theta Healing or other subconscious healing modalities. We have learnt that everything is energy, even emotions are energy (E-nergy in MOTION) and sometimes energy and emotions remain stuck in the body. We have the power to clear those blockages with energy healing modalities like Reiki.
You may have learnt that energy, fears, programs, contracts and physical pain even from pastlives can be carried on and brought into this lifetime to be cleared, healed and resolved. You may have learnt about Karma and Karmic relationships and once the lesson has been learnt, the Karmic debt has been paid or the healing work has been done to heal and release that particular situation then the fears, pain, unhealthy contracts and relationships will be dissolved.
This is DEEP DEEP healing work and the more healing work we do the more we become a healthy, loving, independent, sovereign being that is full of deep inner self love, inner peace, inner happiness, confidence and strength that is able to walk forward with passion on our highest Divine timeline, on our Divine Path, achieving out Divine purpose, surrounded by a family, friends, community and a partner that has been Divinely Chosen/Destined for us. An independent being who realises that regardless of our gender we are allowed to have and do have an integrated balance of BOTH Feminine and Masculine energy running through us and when we come into union with our Divinely chosen partner we meet as equals, of equal value and equal importance, with a balance of give and take, we pour into each other all the love, support and respect that we would love to receive ourselves- but it's not out of a desperate draining need as we already have all that we essentially emotionally need within ourselves. We come together in Inter-dependence not Co-dependence. The love, happiness and feelings of bliss that we receive from our partner compliments our already loving and happy existence. 🩷 and so it is.
The point of this long winded post 😂 is. Right now is the time to look at your life and really feel into where do you feel stuck and blocked? Who, what, how and what situations or programs are keeping you stuck and from moving forwards towards your ultimate dreams and Divinely Fated Destiny???
It's a time to identify them. Where are you in this push/pull energy? Where are you carrying dual programs?
Eg. 'I have to do it all alone but I cannot do it all alone.'
'It's safer to be alone but it's also unsafe to be alone.'
It's time to Divinely clear those types of programs and energetic blockages and replace them with positive programming that allows you to move forward with feelings of safety, confidence, clarity, focus and determination. Every little step counts. The small details changed now can make a big difference for your future. Like the butterfly effect 🦋 🦋.
Like this sign that has been sitting in my lounge room. It had an arrow pointing forwards then the bottom arrow was facing backwards. Like the push/pull stuck energy. You don't know if you are coming or going. 2 steps forwards, 3 steps backwards? Unable to move on from the past or the toxic cycles and relationships. SO!
I randomly decided to paint over the bottom arrow and CHANGE it so it was pointing in the right direction! And the new arrow is not perfect but its hand painted and authentic and it's moving me in the right direction. Symbolic of it doesn't matter how rough the path may be keep moving forwards towards your Ultimate Divine Dreams, Divine Destiny to arrive at and receive what has been Divinely Chosen for you in this current lifetime on this Earth in this current Physical time, space and reality now and forever more. Because you have done the hard yards, you have already learnt the hard lessons and now its YOUR time to receive because you are worth it. You deserve it. It is done. It is done. It is done. So be it. 😇
Thankyou Thankyou Thankyou Divine Creators for all you are and all you do. My Divine Father and My Divine Mother. 💫🌏
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