03/06/2026
When we feel anxious we often just want the feeling to go away. We try to get rid of it, calm it, talk ourselves out of it or numb it.
But there’s often something magical that happens when we learn to be WITH the sensation for long enough to discern what it’s communicating.
‘Anxiety’ is a broad brush term that we use to describe a vast amount of experiences nowadays. So it’s not just a matter of saying “I’m feeling anxious, so it means ‘x’ or ‘y’” We have to learn to listen and move TOWARD ourselves and the feeling in a different way.
When we do this we cultivate self-awareness, self-compassion and a deeper understanding of our needs and values. Not just in a theoretical way, but in a very real, embodied way.
As we learn to relate to ourselves in a different way we often discover a greater sense of aliveness, connectedness and freedom. … And it’s one of the reasons I love somatic therapy and working with the body so much. The wisdom in each of us is beautiful - when we give it time, space and presence to make itself known.