27/05/2026
I get asked all the time how I’m not exhausted from this work.
The honest answer is that working with Spirit is the most energising thing in my life. It’s not what depletes me. Pushing through urgency depletes me. Doing things I don’t want to do depletes me, which I don’t do often anymore. Sleep deprivation depletes me. Spirit doesn’t.
But that took me a minute to learn, because most of what I’d absorbed about being psychic before I started teaching came from people who were drained by it. People who were victim to their psychic experience. People who picked up everyone’s stuff. People who couldn’t get out of bed after a reading. People who treated their sensitivity like an illness they had to recover from.
I’m not saying their experience isn’t real. It is real. It’s just not the only version of this work, and it’s the version with the loudest microphone.
There’s another version where you stay sovereign. Where you only open when you choose to. Where you ask for energy back when you’ve given some out. Where your nervous system isn’t constantly bracing for the next download. Where your gifts feed you instead of feeding off you.
The difference isn’t talent. It’s how you’ve been taught to think about being psychic.
If I didn’t believe Spirit could send me free energy healings, this work would drain me. I’d be giving constantly and receiving nothing back. A hollow channel. But that’s not how I think about it. I receive from Spirit as much as I give.
If I believed I had to be open all the time, that being psychic meant constant access, it would devastate me. I’d be carrying everyone’s field forever. No off switch. But that’s not how I think about it. I close on purpose. I’m not less psychic for closing. I’m more sovereign.
If I believed being psychic meant always being available, acting fast, urgent, I’d be exhausted within a month. Urgency is the thing that cuts the line. So I don’t live from it. That’s a choice too.
These are all choices. Every single one.
If you’ve been carrying this work like it’s heavy, sit with the possibility that the heaviness was inherited. Not innate.
[and inherited things can be put down]